Is my Rabbit grieving?

[Ross_Scott]

Hi all,

I lost my rabbit Benny on Monday sadly, so only a few days ago.

Our other rabbit Belle who was bonded seems to have been coping with it quite well. Tuesday & Wednesday showing slot of energy and enjoying attention of being petted.

Today however (Thursday) she has hidden herself away behind a curtain in a room she would never normally go into. And has twice when I’ve gone to pet her gone for my hand to bite at. Which she’s never done before.

I think this will be grief setting in but not too sure. Has anyone got any advice on how to help her / soften towards us again. And general advice on what to do with a grieving rabbit in general. She is still eating / drinking / pooping which is great. But seems to be avoiding us at all costs.

On Monday she got to spend time with body of her companion Benny as I read this was an important step. Just seeking advice now in the aftermath. How long do expect her to be like this and in future when we are ready how long do you give it until you maybe think of her having another companion. She’s only 4

 

[bunny momma]

I am sorry you lost Benny. Was he the dominant bunny of the pair? Sending you and Belle lots of healing vibes.

 

[joey&boo]

I'm so sorry you lost your bunny friend & your remaining bun is taking it so hard, its the hardest part of losing a bun in my experience.

I've had rabbits for several decades & not experienced the aggression until very recently. My remaining bun was massively out of sorts - he did seek out our company but he looked so visibly sad & became territorial, pouncey & lungey. We just had to be really patient & gentle with him while we searched for a new friend in rescue. You ask how long to wait before you get another companion? I'd start as soon as you can face it, just because it often takes time. Eddy is all better now he has a new friend - he still loves us & has stopped biting & lunging.

Thinking of you & Belle

 

[Shimmer]

Rabbits don't grieve the same as us - if she's noticeably missing her companion, she really needs another companion to fill that gap. If you can face it, I would consider sooner rather than later. Meanwhile, get her checked out by your vet if anything else goes out of kilter (ie eating, pooing).

My experience of bonding grieving rabbits has been very positive. They have tended to be much more accepting of each other and they were much happier with a new partner. I hope it works out well for you and Belle.

 

[Pets mum]

Can't add to above great advice, just wanted to say how sorry I am that you and Belle have lost Benny.