Thank you for all your kind words.
I tried so hard to give her one last cuddle to say gooodbye but she wasn't having any of it. I felt so bad about it, all I could say was goodbye, sorry and I hope you realise that we love you
The vet did also say that given that he appertite was so big she felt that her condition was deteriorating to a point where there could have been more going on besides her dental issues.
Maybe its silly but we opted not to have a pm as we felt that Primrose did not want to be handled when she was alive so would also hate being pulled about after she had gone.