Just wanted to add a cute Lilly story (couldn't be bothered making a whole new thread...!)
She just climbed onto my lap for maybe the 3rd time (I've been encouraging her with treats to get on the sofa next to me and then to jump on my lap to get the treat), treat encouraged again, then she just sat there after the treat, had a wash, then asked for a head rub :shock: so I obliged and she cozied down onto the cushion on my lap purring whilst I fussed her
she then sat up, had a wash and a scratch, then tucked her head back under my hand for more
she eventually got up and jumped to next to me on the sofa where she washed, then nipped me until I gave her more nose rubs :lol: she's never accepted lap cuddles or even sofa cuddles, despite her huge love of floor cuddles! I'm so happy! I hope she feels confident enough to do this again