Sorry but I don't understand what warning could've been given, it said VHD in the thread title, how could you warn people or not put VHD in the title and still alert people? There's no telling what may trigger someone as we can't possibly know if it isn't something obvious. Just about anything might trigger a reaction in someone. It's a public forum so other than obvious things like EDs, adult content, distressing pics or MH I think people just have to moderate themselves as to what they read. We can'tpossibly remember everyones triggers. I'm not unsympathetic to those with OCD, DH has it so I do understand it, but on a public forum I can't see how we can be expected to know what might upset every member.
I was glad of the heads up, and thought rabbit chat was the right place.