biscandmatt1
Wise Old Thumper
i feel guilty because i can't write matts rainbow bridge thread. it is too painful. there is so much i want to say about him and so many memories to share. i feel like if i start writing it then i will totally break down and i'm scared if i do that then it will never stop. maybe when he is back home on friday then i can start to write his tribute and maybe it will be good for me to have a really good cry. at the moment i can't seem to, and when i start to i have to push it away again because i can't bear to feel it. it makes me think that i must be really not coping because normally i am a panic, hysterical crying kind of person and right now i am too calm. o/h said that and so did my mum and dad. they are always more worried about me when i don't speak, don't seem to react or cry and i know they are right because then when it does happen it is usually horrendous. i wonder if taking painkillers is making me feel this way. i know i shouldn't be but they seem to take the edge off. i need to be here for bisc aswell so maybe that is why i am trying to keep it together, because of how in tune he is with my feelings. i don't want to upset him. if i didn't have bisc to look after then i think i would just hide in bed. sometimes i feel like i could very calmly just go and step off a bridge or something. (i won't do this) but just saying that when i am 'calm', usually that means i'm worse and a massive down time is to come.
sorry if this makes no sense. i don't even explain very well.
what is this feeling in my stomach aswell? it's like someone has punched me so hard, but the punch is stuck there. it's so bad i feel like it's winding me. no idea if that makes any sense. my body feels 'floppy' aswell like it has totally drained itself and my mind is just 'out of it'
see now i want to cry and scream but i'm pushing it away for some reason.
when i kissed him at the crematorium and stroked his ears, i thought for a second that he did tooth purrs.
sorry if this makes no sense. i don't even explain very well.
what is this feeling in my stomach aswell? it's like someone has punched me so hard, but the punch is stuck there. it's so bad i feel like it's winding me. no idea if that makes any sense. my body feels 'floppy' aswell like it has totally drained itself and my mind is just 'out of it'
see now i want to cry and scream but i'm pushing it away for some reason.
when i kissed him at the crematorium and stroked his ears, i thought for a second that he did tooth purrs.
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