We had many apparent breakthroughs, and so many time we felt that we were there only to visit and see another cloud of fur. But gradaully it was a week, and then 2 weeks, an then a month and then 6 weeks in between these epsidoes, and we started to discover the triggers too so we managed it more carefully - but these days they are honestly so happy and loved up, it's amazing. It was probably the most stressful experience of my life, I am not kidding, it will push you to the absolute limit, but keep going! As long as thy are not unhappy with each other in terms of attacking, you just hav to trust they know their own language and culture and let them get on with it. The less interference the better I think, provided they are safe.
Always happy to be a listening ear when it gets too much xxx