Sorry that I haven't kept you guys updated on Plumpkin recently - as usual life has been a bit hectic and I've struggled to get on the forum!
Wish I could give you all good news, but I'm actually concerned that she's going downhill again. This past week I've seen a lot of tooth grinding, and whilst Ham & Bea rollick around in the evening, she has been staying in a tight little ball with her eyes closed. I'm going to take her back to the vet on Monday because I suspect she came off of the antibiotics and metacam too soon.
It has been so hard just knowing how to best keep her happy, aside from the potential pain returning. I can only spend so much time with her every day because of work - I'm concerned that she feels isolated and lonely. The happiest I've ever seen her was straight after her operation when she had settled into my bedroom and was flopping on the carpet and eating. I think she felt safe, cosy and sociable. My cat kept going to see her and I worked on my laptop in my room so I could keep an eye on her.
The other day her eyes were so dim and she was so melancholy, so in a moment of desperation I pulled her run closer to Ham & Bea's so she could meet them through the bars. Her eyes were suddenly sparkling and she hit it off with Hamilton immediately. Beatrice was not happy that her boyfriend was flirting with another girl and cuffed her on the nose through the bars, and Plumpkin's face was suddenly that of a bullied child in a playground. It broke my heart! I moved the runs away swiftly after this encounter, but I wanted to see if other bunnies would improve her mood, and it definitely did.
The thing is, she's due operation 2 in about 2 weeks. Then she'll need to recover from that. Then she needs to be spayed. Then a long recovery from that. So it could easily be a couple of months before she's well enough to be bonded with them.
She still refuses to eat hay and hardly eats grass, which is a big worry for me. The Ings hay I have is amazing quality and it's the only stuff my other two will eat now. She won't touch the much coveted dry forage either. I'm compensating with extra green leaves and extra pellets. Trying to help her put on weight because she's still super thin - I can feel her spine horribly when I smooth her back.
Please send your vibes to Plumpkin. I'm finding this a hard time because I hate to see her suffering and I wish I could know what she was thinking. When I went to sit with her today, she had a look in her eyes that said 'I've given up hope'. I just want to see her happy again so badly