Bunny Buddy
Wise Old Thumper
under no uncertain temrs do you put two males together even if one of them has been neutered.
I think this is the key statement - has the poster tried with BOTH males neutered? That would make all the difference.
I really hope you can learn something from the forum Joanne, the wealth of knowledge on offer is vast, a fantastic resource if you can be open-minded enough to take it on board....