they dont kill most animals... i mean, the 19 yo buys meat chickens and kills them and stuff, and i bet he would eat the bunny rabbit too once she gets bigger..only if i didnt want her though...
im used to it...
i live in NSW, Australia....
Hey,
It's really difficult to notice stuff like that when you have grown up with someone. There was some mild weirdness in my family when I was young, but to me it was normal. It took years before I thought erk... that was not everyday behaviour! It's sad to hear you accept that the men in your family are violent, you shouldnt have to put up with that at all.
I haven't had a sheltered life, I know lots of blokes that may appear "rough n ready"- not one of them would do that.
It sounds like you may live in a rural area & your family kills animals for food? If this is the case then a lot of us in the UK aren't used to hearing that these days & can't imagine doing it... but if they are humanely killed for food then that is normal. Fishing is normal.
Throwing rocks at horses isn't... that's abuse, it must be terrifying for them.
Killing baby chicks to get at your sister is abusive. It is killing a living thing for some kind of power or twisted pleasure.
Shaving the rabbit will have possibly have pulled her fur & hurt, she may even have screamed, believing she was about to die? That's pretty heartless, she's a tiny baby...that is sadistic animal abuse.
You say your brothers get more "excited" if you react negatively to their behaviour, that's a warning sign... they're enjoying your distress. I know they aren't living with you any more but it's good to be aware of the facts.
I hope you & the rabbit are ok, it's good that you are getting other people's opinions, Lobo is talking a lot of sense.