purplebumble
Warren Veteran
omg stef....i cannot believe it
At least i am guessing..she went under the GA? painfree.....dreaming of mummy and daddy and binkies.
All i can do is offer up so many hugs for you and jay....when the bunny who has made such an impact on your life goes anyway..esp this way....ive lost two buns to it..... the loss is imense....the pain too much..but weve all had this searing pain..were all on here a keyboard stroke away.
HUGS XXXX
binky free little Lola xx
i will epeat what i always repeat...when our beloved oscar died due to this..we took his body to the vets to be colelcted for cremation..we were devastated and i was in floods of tears so was nikki..he was in a carrier on her lap in her wheelchair.
A lady we saw on way out..gently took me to one side with nikki......she said shed taken in and lost so many pets over the years...but someone told her this and she wanted to pass it on to us.
No matter how shocking or how painless or quick a pets death....they like people do not feel the last few seconds/minute...bodies shut down by then.
she said....a pet comes into your life and loves you and you love them..you do so much for each other. Then one day the cruelest time is losing them...BUT they were with you until they could be loved no more as they were already loved more than life itself....another pet is in desperate need of your help and love....the fist pet passes on to let this new pet come into your life.
she said she truly believd this to be so...and over the past years ive come to agree with her.
so grieve..grieve as much and as long as you need to....dont let anyone belittle you for it. Then somewhere along the line...this new pet will become a part of the family and lola will smile upon you all.
xx
At least i am guessing..she went under the GA? painfree.....dreaming of mummy and daddy and binkies.
All i can do is offer up so many hugs for you and jay....when the bunny who has made such an impact on your life goes anyway..esp this way....ive lost two buns to it..... the loss is imense....the pain too much..but weve all had this searing pain..were all on here a keyboard stroke away.
HUGS XXXX
binky free little Lola xx
i will epeat what i always repeat...when our beloved oscar died due to this..we took his body to the vets to be colelcted for cremation..we were devastated and i was in floods of tears so was nikki..he was in a carrier on her lap in her wheelchair.
A lady we saw on way out..gently took me to one side with nikki......she said shed taken in and lost so many pets over the years...but someone told her this and she wanted to pass it on to us.
No matter how shocking or how painless or quick a pets death....they like people do not feel the last few seconds/minute...bodies shut down by then.
she said....a pet comes into your life and loves you and you love them..you do so much for each other. Then one day the cruelest time is losing them...BUT they were with you until they could be loved no more as they were already loved more than life itself....another pet is in desperate need of your help and love....the fist pet passes on to let this new pet come into your life.
she said she truly believd this to be so...and over the past years ive come to agree with her.
so grieve..grieve as much and as long as you need to....dont let anyone belittle you for it. Then somewhere along the line...this new pet will become a part of the family and lola will smile upon you all.
xx