ive give up, at least for now. i caught a bite off cosmo meant for willow and its cut my finger deep and come up in a big lump. i wouldnt want that happening to any of the buns, it hurt me enough. its like they both want to kill each other. im thinking for the bond to work cosmo or willow would have to bow down to the other and accept them as boss. which at the moment none of them are ready to do that. in the wild they would probably fight it out but i cant let them do that so two quads it is for the time being at least.