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Plumpkin - Farewell
- Thread starter Beapig
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TheThreeB's
Mama Doe
I'm so very sorry that you've had this news 
. Thinking of you, your OH and beautiful Plumpkin xx
. Thinking of you, your OH and beautiful Plumpkin xxI am so sorry that the CT scan confirmed the worst Your poor beautiful and very brave Plumpkin has touched so many hearts here and I'm sure that many of us will never forget her. Zoobec is right, she looks very content in your pic and of course is unaware of the sad news
Sending loads more hugs to you both. I will be thinking of you.
Your poor beautiful and very brave Plumpkin has touched so many hearts here and I'm sure that many of us will never forget her. Zoobec is right, she looks very content in your pic and of course is unaware of the sad news Sending loads more hugs to you both. I will be thinking of you.
Thank you so much everyone. I am touched by your caring words.
We're trying to decide when to help her go. We are partly tempted to give her the weekend so she can go back 'home' outside for a few days and enjoy the great dental work Sonya gave her.
I have never had a pet PTS before and am wondering the 'funeral' side of things. Is cremation an option? Do we lat her to rest in our garden? Would appreciate some advice on that front as I have no idea.
We're trying to decide when to help her go. We are partly tempted to give her the weekend so she can go back 'home' outside for a few days and enjoy the great dental work Sonya gave her.
I have never had a pet PTS before and am wondering the 'funeral' side of things. Is cremation an option? Do we lat her to rest in our garden? Would appreciate some advice on that front as I have no idea.
kattymieoww
Warren Veteran
I'm so sorry to read that poor Plumpkin is in such a bad way.Utterly heartbreaking,such a brave soul .My thoughts are with you in this difficult time x
joey&boo
Wise Old Thumper
Did Sonya give any guidance about how long you may have while Plumpkin is comfortable? a few days in the sunshine with her pals sounds wonderful if its an option. She does look bright. Its fine to bury your pets at home. I always go for cremation. I think I'm unusual in that I don;t have a seperate cremation nor have the ashes returned. I think its a very personal choice
Craig 1965
Warren Veteran
Beapig - I wish I had a fraction of the courage you have. I admire your strength and courage.
In so far as how to deal with the funeral side - my own view is this: - I am with Joey & Boo in that, especially with this nicer weather, Plumpkin should enjoy as much of it as she is able to. It will be such a tonic for her inner spirit and give her the special memories she deserves (apologies, tears running down my eyes).
My own view is that I prefer to bury my pets, because I feel in some way that they become a part of the garden where they enjoyed their time. The pets tell me where they wish to sleep forever because it is where they are most often found - a favorite bush or sun spot. My bridge buns Georgina and Ben are buried near the end of our garden in a shady spot Georgina loved to sit in. Sadly because we lost Ben 3 weeks later, we felt it fitting to lay him at her side. I say good morning and good evening every day as I pass them. So for me, it feels as though I can still feel them there. It is their home and at some point this year when I get time, I plan on getting some special plant or bush which I feel symbolises Ben & Georgina.
I think Plumpkin has made such an impact on many of us, and we carry round her spirit in our hearts. She is such a remarkable bun and you are an amazing person and bunny saviour. Thinking of you and nose rubs to the gorgeous Plumpkin. I hope she has the most special days ahead and she truly found love with you. xx
In so far as how to deal with the funeral side - my own view is this: - I am with Joey & Boo in that, especially with this nicer weather, Plumpkin should enjoy as much of it as she is able to. It will be such a tonic for her inner spirit and give her the special memories she deserves (apologies, tears running down my eyes).
My own view is that I prefer to bury my pets, because I feel in some way that they become a part of the garden where they enjoyed their time. The pets tell me where they wish to sleep forever because it is where they are most often found - a favorite bush or sun spot. My bridge buns Georgina and Ben are buried near the end of our garden in a shady spot Georgina loved to sit in. Sadly because we lost Ben 3 weeks later, we felt it fitting to lay him at her side. I say good morning and good evening every day as I pass them. So for me, it feels as though I can still feel them there. It is their home and at some point this year when I get time, I plan on getting some special plant or bush which I feel symbolises Ben & Georgina.
I think Plumpkin has made such an impact on many of us, and we carry round her spirit in our hearts. She is such a remarkable bun and you are an amazing person and bunny saviour. Thinking of you and nose rubs to the gorgeous Plumpkin. I hope she has the most special days ahead and she truly found love with you. xx
nickybunny1
Mama Doe
I too have followed your journey with beautiful beautiful brave Plumpkin and the amazing love and care you have given her. Your love for her shows in every post and she knows how much you care. I am so sorry to hear the CT scan was bad news, how devastating for you all. Like someone else said I hope the last dental will give you longer than you think with her. Hugs xx
tlcwrites
Mama Doe
I'm very sorry you are reaching the end of the road with Plumpkin.
Most my recent bunnies passed via euthanasia. I've personally always opted for taking them alone to the practice, then bringing them home for the rabbits to say their goodbyes. Timing, I've always based on their behaviour. If they still appear happy in themselves, then I'm okay with that. We have the burden of knowing they are ill...
Usually, I bury in the garden and then plant a berry bush where we can eat the fruit and the rabbits the leaves. The only time I've opted for cremation was individually, for Elphie. It felt 'right' for her.
Sending lots of love (and nosebumps from the buns.) xxx
Most my recent bunnies passed via euthanasia. I've personally always opted for taking them alone to the practice, then bringing them home for the rabbits to say their goodbyes. Timing, I've always based on their behaviour. If they still appear happy in themselves, then I'm okay with that. We have the burden of knowing they are ill...
Usually, I bury in the garden and then plant a berry bush where we can eat the fruit and the rabbits the leaves. The only time I've opted for cremation was individually, for Elphie. It felt 'right' for her.
Sending lots of love (and nosebumps from the buns.) xxx
MightyMax
Banned
It will be a heartfelt few days for all of you.
Regards burial or cremation - yes cremation is definitely an option, and if you want to there are companies that do individual cremations and give you the ashes back in a casket.
You can also bury in the garden and some people like to plant a special flower or rose over the grave.
With pts I am always with my animal, holding them, and never let them be taken away from me throughout the whole procedure. I prefer it that way.
Loads of hugs xx
Thank you so much for the advice everyone.
I think I will probably go with burial because I really like the idea of laying her to rest in the place she finally found some happiness. Her first real home. I love the idea of planting a bush in her honour.
She seems quite okay right now - it's hard to believe that this is goodbye. I really wasn't expecting this to be the outcome
I think I will probably go with burial because I really like the idea of laying her to rest in the place she finally found some happiness. Her first real home. I love the idea of planting a bush in her honour.
She seems quite okay right now - it's hard to believe that this is goodbye. I really wasn't expecting this to be the outcome
Thank you so much for the advice everyone.
I think I will probably go with burial because I really like the idea of laying her to rest in the place she finally found some happiness. Her first real home. I love the idea of planting a bush in her honour.
She seems quite okay right now - it's hard to believe that this is goodbye. I really wasn't expecting this to be the outcome
I think I will probably go with burial because I really like the idea of laying her to rest in the place she finally found some happiness. Her first real home. I love the idea of planting a bush in her honour.
She seems quite okay right now - it's hard to believe that this is goodbye. I really wasn't expecting this to be the outcome
MightyMax
Banned
Thank you so much for the advice everyone.
I think I will probably go with burial because I really like the idea of laying her to rest in the place she finally found some happiness. Her first real home. I love the idea of planting a bush in her honour.
She seems quite okay right now - it's hard to believe that this is goodbye. I really wasn't expecting this to be the outcome
I know what you mean. I never expect the outcome either and it's always hard when the final time comes.
Bless her and you for taking her on. You have some lovely memories of her. She has been amazing and you have too. Xx
I am so sorry about your very sad news about Plumpkin. Hugs xxx
Jack's-Jane
Wise Old Thumper
Thank you so much for the advice everyone.
I think I will probably go with burial because I really like the idea of laying her to rest in the place she finally found some happiness. Her first real home. I love the idea of planting a bush in her honour.
She seems quite okay right now - it's hard to believe that this is goodbye. I really wasn't expecting this to be the outcome
More ((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))).
One thing you may want to consider is to save some of Plumpkin's fur. I have a keepsake necklace pendant and a glass bead bracelet with Inspector Morse's fur in it. I also keep some by his Casket on his Memorial Chair in my bedroom
Also, I'd ask the Vet if he/she would take some 'Plumpkin Paw Prints' for you to keep. My Vet always offers this to Pet Care Givers who are having to say a final Farewell too their Pet. It is a personal thing though and neither of my suggestions may feel 'right' for you xx
Thank you for your kind word and suggestions everyone.
We've decided to give her the weekend to enjoy some final days in 'Plumpkin's Palace' with the gang.
I really appreciate all of the support I've had from RU. I'm really glad that I found this forum. I've learnt so much from everyone here and appreciate the friendship more than I can say.
We've decided to give her the weekend to enjoy some final days in 'Plumpkin's Palace' with the gang.
I really appreciate all of the support I've had from RU. I'm really glad that I found this forum. I've learnt so much from everyone here and appreciate the friendship more than I can say.
keletkezes
Wise Old Thumper
The very best wishes to all of you, Beapig ::hugs:: You are amazing
