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What are the signs of a bereaved Bunny

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I lost my little Flump on Friday, which has left Rita a widow:cry:
She's eating, drinking and washing, which I presume is a good sign, but seems to be a little lost.
What are the signs of her not coping with her loss? Should I get her another friend, and if so how long or how soon should I get one.

I'm also wondering if I'm reading too much into her behaviour as I'm gutted that he's gone, and feel really sorry for her!
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I'm very sorry for your loss :cry:

No I don't think you are reading too much into it at all. Rabbits are very social creatures and make very strong bonds, and therefore experience separation very profoundly. Did Rita get a chance to spend some time with Flump's body? When it is possible to do so this can help the bunny left behind, but it isn't always practical in every situation.
I think Rita's behaviour sounds like grief and separation which is all very normal for a widowed bun. As long as she is eating and drinking then just keep a close eye on her and give her lots of comfort. Some people find a soft rabbit toy helps some grieving buns - something to groom etc.
As for when the right time to bond with a new bun is? That depends on the bunny. Sometimes buns respond very well and perk up with a new rabbit asap, even if it is too soon for the owner to move on, but other buns need a little more time. I think you will need to play it by ear, although I would be inclined to start thinking about a new bunny for Rita, even if it is too early for you. I'm very sorry for your loss :cry: RIP Flump x
 
Im sorry about Flump. I personally could not bear to see my bun grieving and would have to see the rescues for a companion - even though it will be so hard for me.

RIP little Flump x x
 
Aww. Sorry about your loss. :(

I've never lost a bunny before (as the two I have now are my first), but when I lost my dog, my sister getting a dog (whom I see frequently and take for walks), really helped me to get over my loss. [I'm thinking only of you here, as I've no experience of grieving buns.]
 
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Thanks for your replies, Yes Rita did get to spend time with him, as i found him at the bottom of their hutch :(

I'm still not sure about getting her a little friend.
 
Hi, we are in the same situation as we lost Bonnie on Sunday leaving behind Henry. We are struggling with the idea of looking for a new freind for Henry as it's too soon for us but we know we have to put Henry first.
 
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