I feel like I'm forgetting Eddie I still think about him all the time, but I'm starting to forget what it was like to cuddle him and play with him, to give him nose rubs and laugh at his dog-like mannerisms. I don't want to forget
I know what you mean though, when Bungle first died, I used to still feel him around me and I used to cry every day. Over tme, this calms and in the end you are left with some wonderful memories. But you only really remember a few regularly but are reminded time and again of other funny, cute or naughty things when you watch videos or look at pictures. This is our human mind making sure that we dont go mad with grief. Its what allows us to move on in life and love other people and things. But it never lets us forget the really important things.
Big hugs to you.
Sorry to say this but I'm so glad you posted this as I'm having the same thoughts about my doggie who died in Feb, and I thought it was just me
It really does help when you know someone else thinks/feels the same way, so thank you for being brave enough to post this - I wasn't!
I sit some nights and question wether I miss her enough?
I obviously do as I'd seriously give my right arm to have her back fit and well, but I cope each day and feel I shouldn't
Hugs to you ((((Nicola))))
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I feel like that about Tilly too. At first her little ways and expressions were so fresh and raw that it hurt like crazy. But now I feel guilty that my life HAS gone on without her
She will always be in my heart though, as Eddie will always be in yours. Xxx