Firstly thanks to Sarah for posting for me.
Finally got internet to work!
I started bonding Oscar and Jasmine yesterday evening, all hell broke lose. Jasmine was awful with him, circling, going for his neck, not letting him eat or move etc etc. Armed with my water spray and been extermely tired (got back from holiday yest) things got worse and Oscar kept clearing the area (puppy pen). I was woken by an awful "scream" if you call it that and a rather scared Oscar. So i decided enough was enough for tonight and separated them, right or wrong thing i dont know. There was lots of fur pulling and constant chasing.
So anyways this morning, i put them together again, a fair bit of chasing and fur pulling, but not as bad as yesterday, so proceeded. Each time Jasmine moved, Oscar stomped his feet, made a strange noise and ran around the pen like a mad head. This happened pretty much all day so decided to put them in carrier and go for a drive, this went well and they laid next to each other. Got them home, back in pen, things slightly better.
I have made the area smaller, which seems to of helped. Oscar still wary of Jasmine. She keeps going up to him acting interested but i think she scared him so he stomps, runs away and they end up chasing. The fur pulling has reduced and i have seen Oscar lay down (FINALLY) and Jasmine eat next to him and same the other way. Jasmine is now relaxed, its just Oscar he needs to realise she isnt hurting him.
He looks so miserable. And is constantly stamping his feet and making noises.
He just sits at the bars looking up. I have had to put a sheet on top so he cant jump out.
Both are eating well and drinking, pooing etc etc.
Is it a case of carry on, keeping a close eye on them?
Advice is greatly welcome, what a stressful day...
Oh on the other hand the bonding of my 5some has gone exteremly well........