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Gordon has gone

Thank you for the support.

I don't expect any further replies and didn't want to keep posting about it but I'm just thinking about him all the time, no one who I am physically with understands why I am so upset. My partner was upset and had to leave the room whilst we was at the vets but he's just talking about bonding beano and Jake. Of course I don't want beano to be lonely but its beano and Gordon, not beano and Jake that are supposed to be together. I've come to stay at my parents for a few nights to stop me staring at his stuff but now I'm just looking at all the photos I have of him up in my old bedroom. Even though for that day I knew it was coming I cant believe he's gone.
 
Thank you for the support.

I don't expect any further replies and didn't want to keep posting about it but I'm just thinking about him all the time, no one who I am physically with understands why I am so upset. My partner was upset and had to leave the room whilst we was at the vets but he's just talking about bonding beano and Jake. Of course I don't want beano to be lonely but its beano and Gordon, not beano and Jake that are supposed to be together. I've come to stay at my parents for a few nights to stop me staring at his stuff but now I'm just looking at all the photos I have of him up in my old bedroom. Even though for that day I knew it was coming I cant believe he's gone.

Liz, if you want to keep posting about Gordon, and with photos or anything, then please keep doing so :wave:

I can quite understand you feel the bond between Beano and Gordon was special, I would feel the same. Perhaps your partner is trying to deal with things by taking the practical approach. I've had to do this sometimes myself, as I get consumed with grief when any of mine depart, however it happens.

Sending you super-size hugs while you have a break with your folks.

Take as much time as you need to get through this. I don't ever get over a loss, but somehow I manage to work through it eventually ... xxx
 
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