shannon321
Alpha Buck
So on sunday morning i started seriously bonding my two again, they have been living side by side for months now and been dating.
Heres a little run down -
Day 1 - I moved them into our porch which is neutral to them and i set up a bed and spent a whole 24hours in there with them, including sleeping in there. It all went well, no bad behaviour. Lots of grooming and flopping near each other barely any humping.
Day 2 - They spent the day in a run outside, again went well although sammy (neutered male) had about half an hour of incessant humping, i gave him a time out for 10 mins in a carrier within the run and after that the day went with out trouble. The night they spent in the porch with me checking on the hour every hour
Day 3 -All went fine till the 6am check when some fur had been flying but no injuries and they where fine for the rest of the day, i then checked them at 11, 3 and 6 last night they where fine till the 6 am check again and lots of fur had been flying, i slept with my door wide open right near the porch so i'm suprised they didn't wake me. Sammy has had his front teeth removed so no injuries to bun bun but sammy had a little nip to his rump.
So now we are at day four and i'm at a loss as to what to do, my partner was off all weekend so it was easy to have someone with them constantly for the first 3 days but i had hoped by day four they would be able to be left for an hour or two as he's at work and i have a dog to walk, horse to do and a few errends to run but i don't feel happy leaving them but i also would be gutted to seperate them after putting in so much work over the last three days!
What seems to be happening is bun bun (spayed female) is humping sammy and he starts the fights, when sammy humps bun bun she tolarates it very well to a certain point them trys to get away which is where i step in and seperate him. After sammy starts the fight if bun bun goes any where near him he lunges at her and trys to start fur pulling. Generally ten mins in the carrier seems to reset him and she can then approach him with out him lunging but this morning that doesn't seem to be working and he keeps lunging for her so i'm now at a loss, should i seperate them? DOes this mean i wont ever be able to bond them ? i'm so tired and feel like the last 3 days have been a complete waste of my time
Heres a little run down -
Day 1 - I moved them into our porch which is neutral to them and i set up a bed and spent a whole 24hours in there with them, including sleeping in there. It all went well, no bad behaviour. Lots of grooming and flopping near each other barely any humping.
Day 2 - They spent the day in a run outside, again went well although sammy (neutered male) had about half an hour of incessant humping, i gave him a time out for 10 mins in a carrier within the run and after that the day went with out trouble. The night they spent in the porch with me checking on the hour every hour
Day 3 -All went fine till the 6am check when some fur had been flying but no injuries and they where fine for the rest of the day, i then checked them at 11, 3 and 6 last night they where fine till the 6 am check again and lots of fur had been flying, i slept with my door wide open right near the porch so i'm suprised they didn't wake me. Sammy has had his front teeth removed so no injuries to bun bun but sammy had a little nip to his rump.
So now we are at day four and i'm at a loss as to what to do, my partner was off all weekend so it was easy to have someone with them constantly for the first 3 days but i had hoped by day four they would be able to be left for an hour or two as he's at work and i have a dog to walk, horse to do and a few errends to run but i don't feel happy leaving them but i also would be gutted to seperate them after putting in so much work over the last three days!
What seems to be happening is bun bun (spayed female) is humping sammy and he starts the fights, when sammy humps bun bun she tolarates it very well to a certain point them trys to get away which is where i step in and seperate him. After sammy starts the fight if bun bun goes any where near him he lunges at her and trys to start fur pulling. Generally ten mins in the carrier seems to reset him and she can then approach him with out him lunging but this morning that doesn't seem to be working and he keeps lunging for her so i'm now at a loss, should i seperate them? DOes this mean i wont ever be able to bond them ? i'm so tired and feel like the last 3 days have been a complete waste of my time