I went to view a house yesterday and took my dad. The house was lovely but it was a tiny little dollhouse with carpets everywhere (even the bathroom) and no garden. It would have been perfect just for me and the OH but it was way too small for the rabbits.
When we were out I explained to my dad that I wanted a garden for the buns, I couldn't have carpet everywhere because of Grace and it was just too small. He was like 'well do you want a house for you or the rabbits, just put them in the "bungalow" in the yard [this is what he calls my 6ft double decker hutch. And he was serious he wasn't winding me up.]'
So I was like 'they are house rabbits and that hutch is way too small for ten bunnies'.
He told me 'oh well we've always kept rabbits in hutches when you were little, they live outside in the wild and of course the hutch is big enough, I could live in it'
Then me and the OH took some of the rabbits to the vets for their jabs. They were talking about how some people just do myxi once yearly and OH was like 'oh well we should do that'. So of course I kicked off, even the vet was saying 'you'd never forgive yourself for taking the risk if anything happened'
I'm just so sick I want a house my dad likes, his opinion is really important to me, and I want my OH to love the rabbits or at least to like them. The only rabbit he likes is Harvey, he's even said if we broke up Harvey is the only one he'd miss.
I feel so alone like I'm in my own little crazy rabbit lady bubble I just wish my family and friends and OH would support me a bit more in it when they see how happy the bunnies make me, I do the same for them even if I don't get their love of something.
When we were out I explained to my dad that I wanted a garden for the buns, I couldn't have carpet everywhere because of Grace and it was just too small. He was like 'well do you want a house for you or the rabbits, just put them in the "bungalow" in the yard [this is what he calls my 6ft double decker hutch. And he was serious he wasn't winding me up.]'
So I was like 'they are house rabbits and that hutch is way too small for ten bunnies'.
He told me 'oh well we've always kept rabbits in hutches when you were little, they live outside in the wild and of course the hutch is big enough, I could live in it'
Then me and the OH took some of the rabbits to the vets for their jabs. They were talking about how some people just do myxi once yearly and OH was like 'oh well we should do that'. So of course I kicked off, even the vet was saying 'you'd never forgive yourself for taking the risk if anything happened'
I'm just so sick I want a house my dad likes, his opinion is really important to me, and I want my OH to love the rabbits or at least to like them. The only rabbit he likes is Harvey, he's even said if we broke up Harvey is the only one he'd miss.
I feel so alone like I'm in my own little crazy rabbit lady bubble I just wish my family and friends and OH would support me a bit more in it when they see how happy the bunnies make me, I do the same for them even if I don't get their love of something.