Why we got babies from a breeder instead of adopting from a rescue
Sorry, this is long. (edited to make it more concise)
Actually, I should have probably given more detail, but at this point the first question is mostly theoretical since we already have two bucks and a doe. The reason for getting two bucks is that there is a low-cost neuter option in our area for bucks, but not a low-cost spay option for does (even the lowest price we found for a spay will end up being about 10 times what it will cost to neuter the bucks), so having two bucks makes it manageable for us to get all three fixed.
The babies are getting along fabulously so far, but I was just wondering "what ifs", I guess.
We do have enough space to house the rabbits separately if we need to, but we are really hoping they will work out as a bonded trio, or at least that we'll end up with a bonded pair and a single buck.
Right now they are all sharing a cage and have a large exercise area made of wire storage cube squares in a room that can be shut off from access by the dog. Soon we will need to put the two bucks in one cage and the doe in a adjoining cage, and either have them take turns using the exercise area or divide it in half. The bucks still have little tiny cup-shaped genitals and no discernable testicles, so I don't think we're in any danger of a pregnancy for a little while at least. They're only 9 weeks old.
We did look at shelters and rescues in the area. There just don't seem to be any bonded groups of 3 rabbits locally. We would have been willing to settle for a pair if we found one that was already good with kids and dogs, but that didn't seem readily available at this time either. They all seemed to be either good with kids or comfortable around dogs, but not both. And the ones that were good with kids AND comfortable with dogs were singletons, not bonded pairs, or were too small for us to be comfortable having them in the house with small children and a dog.
We decided that, given our situation and the fact that we couldn't find what we were looking for in the local rescue or shelters, the best option would be to get babies that could be acclimated to our household and to being handled at a young age. Hopefully they will be able to bond into a trio.
We can always just keep the three separate if we have to. If it turns out that the two bucks don't get along and we end up with a bonded pair, we will see where we stand at that point. If we feel we could handle another rabbit by then and the other buck seems really unhappy alone, we will probably try to get a spayed doe for him from a rescue or shelter, and either see if that helped the group dynamics or just keep two bonded pairs separately.