kinsandkinnies
New Kit
Hi
in november i had to have my bunny parsley put to sleep, we rescued him from a bad owner and he had severe dental problems, which i had him straight to the vets for surgery (twice) but his case was so bad his mouth just wouldnt heal and his back teeth were growing so quick he would had to have surgery monthly he was in a bad way which led to me feeding him by hand, giving him his medicine etc so i developed a strong motherly bond with him so when the vets told me having him put to sleep after trying so very hard to fix him was the hardest thing i have ever done because it wasnt like losing a pet i lost a child. I buried him in the back garden and made his grave pretty (this was in november) now i have heard that you can watch a pet cremation service ( i never knew you could do this and was worried i wouldnt get my baby back)now im thinking and would love some advice on the right thing as im not sure, what half of me is thinking i should dig his little coffin up and have him cremated so when i die he can be buried with me ( i will be moving from my parents home in about a year, hence i feel i will be kind of leaving him behind) or do i leave him to rest where he is, my parents own their home and they would never disterb him, but what about when something happens to them, im so worried about a new owner of the house disterbing his body its killing me, or am i still grieving and thats why all these worries are spinning in my head? i mean im sure my parents would live in this house for many years and by then maybe my loss would feel different as i guess you kind of move on but at this moment in time im very torn on the right thing to do i would be very grateful for any advice or similar problems
thankyou
gemma
in november i had to have my bunny parsley put to sleep, we rescued him from a bad owner and he had severe dental problems, which i had him straight to the vets for surgery (twice) but his case was so bad his mouth just wouldnt heal and his back teeth were growing so quick he would had to have surgery monthly he was in a bad way which led to me feeding him by hand, giving him his medicine etc so i developed a strong motherly bond with him so when the vets told me having him put to sleep after trying so very hard to fix him was the hardest thing i have ever done because it wasnt like losing a pet i lost a child. I buried him in the back garden and made his grave pretty (this was in november) now i have heard that you can watch a pet cremation service ( i never knew you could do this and was worried i wouldnt get my baby back)now im thinking and would love some advice on the right thing as im not sure, what half of me is thinking i should dig his little coffin up and have him cremated so when i die he can be buried with me ( i will be moving from my parents home in about a year, hence i feel i will be kind of leaving him behind) or do i leave him to rest where he is, my parents own their home and they would never disterb him, but what about when something happens to them, im so worried about a new owner of the house disterbing his body its killing me, or am i still grieving and thats why all these worries are spinning in my head? i mean im sure my parents would live in this house for many years and by then maybe my loss would feel different as i guess you kind of move on but at this moment in time im very torn on the right thing to do i would be very grateful for any advice or similar problems
thankyou
gemma