I have two boys im trying to bond, both male. one is 1 and the other is 4. i know this isnt an easy pair but they have been doing pretty well with a little bit of fighting, both of them even flopped two days ago but while i was at a party and my mom was watching them they got into a big fight and one of them (not sure who) screamed very loud and they were separated. i just dont understand how one day they groom eachother and flop and the next one of them is screaming.