MurphyGold
New Kit
Hello everyone,
Murphy is now 6 months old, so he is going through the terrible teenage stage at the moment - though he is booked in to be done on the 30th. I do plan on finding him a GF once he has healed etc.
But in the 3 months we've had him. He has shown very little interest in wanting to know me, at all.
I've tried bribing him, giving treats when he comes over, ignoring him completely and letting him do his own thing and sitting with him on the floor all the time - lovely numb bum issues with this!
But he still isn't the slightest bit interested in me, the most attention I get is a sniff and a kick as he walks away, about 90% of the time. He'll do it when I change his water, feed him, clean him out and just when he's the one who has come up to me, then walks away kicking at me.
But, who does he like? My OH! Who wasn't really interested in getting him in the first instance. Murphy is quite content to jump on the sofa with him, chase him, go running up to him. Last night he was even invited to dance and play by Murphy! - Murph was running in circles around my OH.
I've now, ashamedly grown a bit of resentment towards Murphy - bit of a kick in the teeth when your own pet couldn't care less about you. I don't know what to do.
Seems his name is appropriate - after Muprhy's law - I'd get want him, my partner not and it's me he dislikes! I'm kind of worried that if i bring another rabbit in, he'll kind of rub off on her and both of them will hate me!
I thought it would be a good bonding thing for us if I tried to start clicker training him - LOL, doesn't even come near me for me to even click and treat, I've been trying for a week now.
I honestly am at a loss - It's a bit disheartening living with a pet that doesn't want to know... I'm not planning on rehoming him, he still is going to be neutered and I am still going to find him a friend. But I really don't know what more I can do to try and bond with him...
Murphy is now 6 months old, so he is going through the terrible teenage stage at the moment - though he is booked in to be done on the 30th. I do plan on finding him a GF once he has healed etc.
But in the 3 months we've had him. He has shown very little interest in wanting to know me, at all.
I've tried bribing him, giving treats when he comes over, ignoring him completely and letting him do his own thing and sitting with him on the floor all the time - lovely numb bum issues with this!
But he still isn't the slightest bit interested in me, the most attention I get is a sniff and a kick as he walks away, about 90% of the time. He'll do it when I change his water, feed him, clean him out and just when he's the one who has come up to me, then walks away kicking at me.
But, who does he like? My OH! Who wasn't really interested in getting him in the first instance. Murphy is quite content to jump on the sofa with him, chase him, go running up to him. Last night he was even invited to dance and play by Murphy! - Murph was running in circles around my OH.
I've now, ashamedly grown a bit of resentment towards Murphy - bit of a kick in the teeth when your own pet couldn't care less about you. I don't know what to do.
Seems his name is appropriate - after Muprhy's law - I'd get want him, my partner not and it's me he dislikes! I'm kind of worried that if i bring another rabbit in, he'll kind of rub off on her and both of them will hate me!
I thought it would be a good bonding thing for us if I tried to start clicker training him - LOL, doesn't even come near me for me to even click and treat, I've been trying for a week now.
I honestly am at a loss - It's a bit disheartening living with a pet that doesn't want to know... I'm not planning on rehoming him, he still is going to be neutered and I am still going to find him a friend. But I really don't know what more I can do to try and bond with him...