rachylou
Warren Veteran
We have found the perfect house and have put down the deposit and all the reference checks are almost done so soon we need to sign on the dotted line.
Problem is, we went back to measure a space in the kitchen for a fridge and had another look in the cupboards and I saw 3 bottles of slug and snail poision in the down stairs cupboard which I hadnt seen the first time.
I really really want this house it is lovely and we are really lucky to have found it BUT I am now terrified that by moving in Jimby and Cookie will die.
I know I HAVE to trust other peoples advice and opinions as mine are too conflickted (sp) with OCD.
So I really need to ask the following questions-
1 ) would you still move there not knowing where the poison was?
2) would you search the garden for any sign of poison?
3) would you worry about going in the garden, doing some gardening, getting covered in soil then going back in the house?
4) would you worry if your child rolled around all over the grass and then came back in the house and sat on the sofa etc?
I know that if I don't follow through with this house I would be letting the OCD rule me again and rob me of something we so desperately want (a family home) but I am scared that I wont be able to cope once moved in and that would present a HUGE problem.
I dont want my babies to die
Problem is, we went back to measure a space in the kitchen for a fridge and had another look in the cupboards and I saw 3 bottles of slug and snail poision in the down stairs cupboard which I hadnt seen the first time.
I really really want this house it is lovely and we are really lucky to have found it BUT I am now terrified that by moving in Jimby and Cookie will die.
I know I HAVE to trust other peoples advice and opinions as mine are too conflickted (sp) with OCD.
So I really need to ask the following questions-
1 ) would you still move there not knowing where the poison was?
2) would you search the garden for any sign of poison?
3) would you worry about going in the garden, doing some gardening, getting covered in soil then going back in the house?
4) would you worry if your child rolled around all over the grass and then came back in the house and sat on the sofa etc?
I know that if I don't follow through with this house I would be letting the OCD rule me again and rob me of something we so desperately want (a family home) but I am scared that I wont be able to cope once moved in and that would present a HUGE problem.
I dont want my babies to die