Do you do bonding at all?????
I have a middle aged girl probably needing a new boy as she was widowed twice in quick succession (by an elderly 10 yr+ nethie who she had been with for 2 years, and then by a very sad and sudden death of a new partner).
We have tried her with Hawthorn (our tricky male) who was not having her, and then with two different pairs to try an make a trio each time - and nothing is working - she gets bullied each time by the female . . she is a middle aged nethie with some teeth problems and understandably seems a bit traumatised and in need of her own love bun.
Is Nicholas an indoor or outdoor bun at present?
Problem is I have to know its going to work as I can't take on another bun and end up with another single . . hence the question about bonding.