Murphy30
Warren Scout
Hi guys, hope you don't mind my slightly hysterical post, but I'm not having a good evening with my two (Neutered brother and sister).....let me explain....
They've been bonded since Feb this year, and so far have only had one scuffle with Milo ending up with a small tear in his ear, which healed fine no problems since.
Now, when I initially bonded them, it was a fairly easy bond and they were fine after about 48 hours. He seemed to have asserted himself as the dominant one (He was doing all the humping and demanding grooming, and she just obliged and put up with it or ran away). It has been like this ever since, so I assumed he was the dominant one.
However, this morning when I fed them, she mounted and humped him, till I pushed her off (There's always lots of circling and a bit of chasing at feed time, but that's normal for them, never seems anything nasty at all)
Now, to the point....I came home from work tonight, to find them laid out together as usual....but the run was full of fur (Mainly his), and he had another tear in his ear, a bit bigger than the last one, but not too bad (Have washed with salt water and will keep an eye on it). I thought they'd done the same as last time - Had a scuffle and got over it, so I fed them and watched them eating like I usually do. THen when they'd finished eating, they both went downstairs, but then started chasing again, until I stopped them.
I'm terrified they're going to fight again, so I've separated them at the moment - He's in the hutch and she's in the run attached to it, but they can still see/sniff each other through the bars, and have been laid down next to each other again.
I don't know what to do though - I hate the thought of separating them, but I hate even more the thought of them hurting each other. If I separate them I'll have to block off the ramp again, and have one in the top and one in the bottom of the hutch, which means whoever is in the top will not have access to the run during the day.
Should I try them together again tonight and see what happens, or separate them and try re-bonding them at the weekend?
I thought about taking them for a drive in the car in the carrier, but my husband can't come with me and I don't want to do it on my own.
Help!
They've been bonded since Feb this year, and so far have only had one scuffle with Milo ending up with a small tear in his ear, which healed fine no problems since.
Now, when I initially bonded them, it was a fairly easy bond and they were fine after about 48 hours. He seemed to have asserted himself as the dominant one (He was doing all the humping and demanding grooming, and she just obliged and put up with it or ran away). It has been like this ever since, so I assumed he was the dominant one.
However, this morning when I fed them, she mounted and humped him, till I pushed her off (There's always lots of circling and a bit of chasing at feed time, but that's normal for them, never seems anything nasty at all)
Now, to the point....I came home from work tonight, to find them laid out together as usual....but the run was full of fur (Mainly his), and he had another tear in his ear, a bit bigger than the last one, but not too bad (Have washed with salt water and will keep an eye on it). I thought they'd done the same as last time - Had a scuffle and got over it, so I fed them and watched them eating like I usually do. THen when they'd finished eating, they both went downstairs, but then started chasing again, until I stopped them.
I'm terrified they're going to fight again, so I've separated them at the moment - He's in the hutch and she's in the run attached to it, but they can still see/sniff each other through the bars, and have been laid down next to each other again.
I don't know what to do though - I hate the thought of separating them, but I hate even more the thought of them hurting each other. If I separate them I'll have to block off the ramp again, and have one in the top and one in the bottom of the hutch, which means whoever is in the top will not have access to the run during the day.
Should I try them together again tonight and see what happens, or separate them and try re-bonding them at the weekend?
I thought about taking them for a drive in the car in the carrier, but my husband can't come with me and I don't want to do it on my own.
Help!