Male and female bond

Zigzag

Alpha Buck
Hello,

It’s been a long time since I’ve posted and I hope you’re all well.

I’d love any insights you have on the bond that the rescue are doing for me.

My male bunny’s (2.5) partner died 5 weeks ago. He’s always been laid back and friendly. After she died, he was very depressed and then got very clingy to me, but sadly started getting quite scared of my husband. Although he was eating, his body was hunched, he looked miserable at times, and it was clear he was lonely. (Just to note he had plenty of time to say goodbye to my deceased bunny’s body).

We’ve chosen a 2.5 year old girl who lived with a cat, but has never had a bunny friend before. She’s spayed and he was neutered some time ago.

The rescue use the fast track method- so they put them in a small pen and hope that it works in a few days. They have been in the pen since Thursday, so I’d say this is very early days.

-He’s very nervous aggressive and very scared of her.

-He’s starting to settle a bit but unfortunately stays in a corner of the cage mainly. I don’t think he knows what to think of her, but he is clearly a bit scared. She’s 3kg and he’s 2.8kg

- he finally went on the opposite side of the cage a few times. Just now he touched her nose but her reaction, just a bit of a movement (!) scared him!

- He is eating

- she’s much more relaxed, has sniffed his ears- which he hated at first but is now more tolerant of

- she is also nervous though- so they appear to be two very nervous bunnies!

- there have been no fights

- it is very slow progress! But in my view still early days.

I wanted to know whether any of you have have experience of a similar bond, with similar personalities, that’s worked?

We will be bringing them home as I do think my male boy will be so, so, much more comfortable at home. I really want this to work, but will do what’s best for my male bunny.

Thanks in advance
 
It sounds like it's going relatively well at the rescue from what you've said. Hopefully once they're more confident with each other their personalities will start to come out a bit more!
 
Thank you! Have you ever bonded a pair of nervous rabbits that have taken some time to click?
 
I've never bonded bunnies, but I really hope all goes well for them, it will be lovely for your boy to have a bunny friend.
 
As long as they aren't fighting it should be fine. It can take a long time for Rabbits to start to trust one another so be patient.
 
Thanks all. Thank you Pets Mum for the well wishes.

So they are home. It was quite a slow bond at the bonders as my male bunny was quite depressed initially. No grooming, they just sometimes put their noses together in the hope that one of them will groom! Neither will give in! But my boy has given her a couple of licks on her butt.

Now that they’re home they’re in a small neutralised area (I’ve done this a few times). Female bun is nipping him now quite frequently, to reassert her dominance. My male bunny is very nervous and quite scared and even runs when she passes him! They’ve rested together a few times, and I’m hoping my male bun will start to relax.

The female bun is a 3kg Rex, and he’s a 1.7kg chinchilla nethie. He must think she’s like a double decker bus!

If anyone has any advice let me know. I’ve always had rabbits that have bonded easily, but this is a first.

Will share photos once things improve xx
 
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