How I do rabbit bonding

I have started my new blog with a post all about how I do rabbit bonding Hope you find it useful!

http://www.elmbankrabbitboarding.com/blog/how-i-do-rabbit-bonding

Who

Neutered
At least a month, longer is better

Sex
Male and Female pair easier but male/male or female/female can also work

Numbers
A pair is easier to bond than a trio or quad (or more).

Where

Neutral territory
An area neither rabbit has been before. If you have a free range house rabbit try a room the rabbit doesn’t/ rarely goes in to. You can always block off a room for some time before bonding.

Size
Small but not too small
I typically use an area around 7ftx3ft (1mx2m) which works well, sometimes I reduce the size a little but it depends how the bond is going (will discuss later).
As the bond progresses and you see more positive signs and less negative signs you can slowly increase the space.

Contents
I start out with a big pile of hay in the middle and water bowl. Rabbits must never be deprived of food or water. If a rabbit seems unwilling to go near hay/water because of the presence of the other rabbit then I will add another bowl/pile of hay nearby.
I don’t have anything else in the enclosure to start with, some rabbits will become territorial even over a litter tray, while others would be fine. Hidey houses/ carriers are very easy for a rabbit to become territorial over, they can sit in them and guard them, attacking if the other rabbits comes near. Additionally if two rabbits do start a fight inside a hide its difficult for you to intervene and injuries might be worse as they cannot get away from each other. As the bond progresses you can add in litter trays, then hides, then toys etc.

Feeding
I always scatter feed pellets/fresh food especially in the early days of a bond. Ideally you would wait a few hours and for things to settle until you introduce a high quality food. This is because its very easy for them to become aggressive fighting over tasty food, scattering helps rabbits feel less threatened and ensures they both get their share.

Accessible but secure
Its important that you can get into the bonding enclosure quickly in case a fight does happen.

How

Explaining this part may be a bit more difficult as I change my strategies depending on how the bond is going and on the individual rabbits. Will try and give a general overview and then some things I try if it gets tricky.

Put both rabbits in the neutral enclosure around the same time, not leaving any carriers in. I would be inside the enclosure at this time as it can be the most likely time for fights to occur. I would have a towel and/or gloves to hand. Keep rabbits together unless they need to be separated due to fighting or bullying which I will discuss. Continuously separating then putting back together will just prolong and sometimes prevent the rabbits from establishing a bond. Every time they are put back together they have to ‘restart’ getting to know each other, they need prolonged time together to allow their behaviours to play out so they can learn about each other.

Ideally you would start a bond early in the day, watch them for the whole day and hopefully by the time you go to bed you can ‘trust’ them that they probably wont do any more behaviours that would require you to intervene. If you don’t trust them then you will have to separate them while you sleep and start again tomorrow. The same applies to leaving them alone, so its better if you free up a couple of days. The more you have to separate, the longer and more difficult the bond will be.

Eventually you will start seeing more great behaviours and less normal bonding behaviours/behaviours where you would intervene. You can then start to gradually increase the enclosure space/move them back to their normal living area (which should be fully cleaned out/ empty and space still restricted). Each time you increase the space/move the rabbits you will see an increase in chasing, nipping etc for a short time as it’s a new territory for them. This should calm down a lot quicker than when they were first put together.

Normal behaviours
-ignoring each other
-chasing
-nipping
-fur pulling (no blood)
-mounting
-spraying
-putting head underneath other rabbits chin (demanding to be groomed)
-chinning
-thumping
-circling

Great behaviours
-grooming
-sitting near each other/touching each other
-flopping near/touching each other
-eating together happily
-relaxed behaviour in each others presence

Behaviours where I would intervene
-a fight
-biting (skin pierced, blood drawn)
-excessive chasing
-bullying
-rabbit stops eating
-rabbit seems depressed

I will define some of these behaviours and what intervention I would carry out

Fighting
Its important to be able to recognise the difference between chasing and fighting. If you stop a bond every time there is some chasing then the bond just wont be able to continue. The rabbits will not be able to learn who should be ‘boss’ and the chasing will never subside. Chasing is when the rabbits run around after each other, often very fast. Typically a chasing bout will end with some mounting, a nip, fur pulling, or it will just fizzle out. The rabbits usually calm down, do some other behaviours, and then another chasing bout begins etc. Sometimes chasing leads to a fight.

A fight is when the two rabbits attack each other while lying on their sides, they sometimes lock on to each other and kick their back legs at the other rabbits bellies. It can look like a giant ball of fur moving around very fast. If there is a fight (or I think there is about to be a fight) I will intervene by grabbing one of the rabbits with the towel (or while wearing gloves). I will hold this rabbit and give a quick check over for any wounds, then pick up the other rabbit and do the same. Then depending on if there are no wounds they seem calm/no longer on edge I will put them both back down again in the neutral area pretty much straight after if possible. I will then be very close and extra ready to grab a bunny again if I think they will fight again. A lot of the time that fight does it and there will not be another one we will see some ‘normal’ behaviours again but it wont escalate to a fight. Perhaps they have learned the hard way how to ‘behave’?

If a fight does occur again straight away I will separate and give them a rest for at least half an hour in different enclosures and try again later. However if you are new to bunny bonding I wouldn’t recommended you putting them back together if this occurs. It may be best that you seek a rabbit bonder as they will be able to read rabbit behaviour better, also it may be that your neutral space is not neutral enough and they would benefit from going somewhere totally different. If there are any injuries to the rabbits after a fight they should be kept separated until the wound has been treated/ healed (and they have hopefully forgotten about) until you try again.

Remember that not all rabbits will like all other rabbits, and you need to take into careful consideration how many times you will try a bond/ how much stress you will put your rabbit under and if its fair to continue. To date I have only had one fight during bonding that has lead to an injury and that was the tip of a rabbit ear being bitten off… and a nice bite to my ankle. During some circling I have had a rabbit bite a hole through another’s ear but that is pretty much it, I am usually able to intervene before there is an injury.

Biting
Its pretty similar to fighting in that I will grab the rabbit and check over for a wound/ its seriousness. Biting is a lot harder to predict as the behaviour before hand (ears back, head/ front feet thrust forward) can be just a warning or can lead to just a nip.

Excessive chasing
This is a tricky one to explain. As I said earlier chasing usually subsides after a short amount of time, if the chasing is continual for a long amount of time then I intervene. Describing what I feel is a short or long time is difficult. Basically If I feel the chasing is getting worse and worse and the rabbits just keep going round and round with no let up then I will put my hand/towel in between the rabbits, maybe turn one around, to break it up as it could escalate to a fight. Also if its very once sided excessive chasing and one rabbit is always running away its important that the chased rabbit can get a break to rest and eat/drink if it wants too.

Bullying/rabbit stops eating/rabbit seems depressed
These behaviours can all be related. Bullying is when one rabbit prevents the other from behaving normally. Typically one will nip/jump at/chase the other rabbit if it moves, moves out of a certain area, moves towards food or water. This lasts a while and can cause the rabbit to become depressed. The stress of bonding can also cause some rabbits to stop eating and go into stasis. In both these cases I would separate the rabbits and give them a break to make sure they can rest and eat/drink. If these were reoccurring problems I would consider doing a split bonding approach to help the stressed/depressed rabbit feel safer and get used to the other rabbit being near but not able to get too close. Again these are problems that might make you consider are these the right rabbits to be putting together.

Common situations and possible solutions

I have talked a lot about what to do if there is a lot of fighting/ a depressed rabbit, however there are a few other situations that might occur.

Rabbits who ignore each other
These are rabbits who are not fighting a lot, don’t seem terrified of each other, but just don’t want to be near each other. You will find them at opposite ends of the enclosure and it can go on for days. For these rabbits you want to encourage them to actually try and ‘talk’ to each other and to show them its not so bad and can be a nice experience. In these cases I will put pellets/ yummy foods in the middle of the pen to encourage them to eat together.

Broken bond
So your bunnies have been bonded happily for a while, however one day you find fur everywhere and possibly an injury. There are a few reasons why a bond might break down so its important to consider each one as they will have different solutions.

Age
Your rabbits were bonded while young and are now starting to reach sexual maturity. Both rabbits need to be neutered as soon as possible, wait for hormones to settle and then re bonded following the same steps.

Time of year
A really common issue is ‘spring fever’. As spring arrives the rabbits body is getting ready for breeding which can lead to lots of chasing and fur pulling, especially with females. Again neutering will help reduce this, however it can happen even if the rabbits are neutered. If the aggression is mild and rabbits aren’t being injured or become depressed then hopefully it may settle down after a bit of chasing. Alternatively you might have to try going through the bonding steps again.

Referred aggression
When rabbits see/smell other rabbits they are not bonded with they will sometimes become aggressive towards their partner. The easiest way to prevent this is to house other rabbits away and out of sight. Also washing your hands and changing your clothes between visits may help reduce the other rabbits smell on you.

Separated for vet visit
Its important to keep bonded rabbits together at all times, especially if one has to go to the vets as they may smell different when they get back, which can cause fights. Sometimes rabbits do need to be separated at the vets, to ensure the ill one is eating/pooing. In this case its still important that the rabbits partner is still at the vets, to keep the same smell. Once put back together if there are some fights/ chasing you can go back the start of the bonding process.

Vee-jay, you've gone to an awful lot of trouble to give us this wonderful resource.

Thank you so very much!

I shall bookmark it and recommend it, as there are so many people in need of bonding advice

MightyMax said:

Vee-jay, you've gone to an awful lot of trouble to give us this wonderful resource.

Thank you so very much!

I shall bookmark it and recommend it, as there are so many people in need of bonding advice

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Thank you

Thats great, it surprised me actually how many single rabbits I see. They all have very caring owners but they are just worried about bonding so hopefully this will give them some more confidence to go ahead and get their bunny paired up.

Thank you so much for this resource! We are gearing up to bond our current singleton in a couple of weeks time, and although I've been reading as much advice as I can find, this is fantastic, and has some details that others haven't.

Do you mind a quick question? The last vet we saw suggested keeping the new bunny in her carrier the first time they meet and letting our bunny hop round for a few minutes (in neutral space) to see how they get along. I want to do your method of throwing them together and letting it work (to put it elegantly) because space wise we aren't able to set up terribly well for a long bond. But the new bunny is over twice the size of our current bunny, so I think there may be some wisdom in letting them get a chance to "meet" before they have full access to each other - in a fight, I am slightly worried that our bunny will be squished completely. Would you recommend, or does it have to be just putting them together and seeing how it goes?

Monty's Human said:

Thank you so much for this resource! We are gearing up to bond our current singleton in a couple of weeks time, and although I've been reading as much advice as I can find, this is fantastic, and has some details that others haven't.

Do you mind a quick question? The last vet we saw suggested keeping the new bunny in her carrier the first time they meet and letting our bunny hop round for a few minutes (in neutral space) to see how they get along. I want to do your method of throwing them together and letting it work (to put it elegantly) because space wise we aren't able to set up terribly well for a long bond. But the new bunny is over twice the size of our current bunny, so I think there may be some wisdom in letting them get a chance to "meet" before they have full access to each other - in a fight, I am slightly worried that our bunny will be squished completely. Would you recommend, or does it have to be just putting them together and seeing how it goes?

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Hi

If you start with a barrier between them (carrier front, mesh inbetween etc) then they can still quite easily bite each other through it so wont prevent injury. Also even if you do prevent them from biting through with an additional barrier you have now created two territories so its no longer neutral space... so you will have to find somewhere else to put them together. Also they can get used to and seem friendly to each other through the mesh but when put together they can still start with a fight so I just dont see the point really.

vee-jay said:

Hi

If you start with a barrier between them (carrier front, mesh inbetween etc) then they can still quite easily bite each other through it so wont prevent injury. Also even if you do prevent them from biting through with an additional barrier you have now created two territories so its no longer neutral space... so you will have to find somewhere else to put them together. Also they can get used to and seem friendly to each other through the mesh but when put together they can still start with a fight so I just dont see the point really.

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That's very useful information - and very definitive! It's hard to get definite answers around bonding (I know there aren't many). Thank you! And thank you for such a quick reply

Monty's Human said:

That's very useful information - and very definitive! It's hard to get definite answers around bonding (I know there aren't many). Thank you! And thank you for such a quick reply

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No problem

You will get people that disagree with me, and thats fine as there are many different ways to do bonding, this is just what I think after the experiences I have had.

vee-jay said:

Thank you

Thats great, it surprised me actually how many single rabbits I see. They all have very caring owners but they are just worried about bonding so hopefully this will give them some more confidence to go ahead and get their bunny paired up.

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People usually come to me before they even try, and I bond them for them :lol:

As you say, there are so many ways to bond rabbits. And it takes a little sprinkling of magic sometimes

Despite there being numerous pages and videos on how to bond rabbits, this has helped me the most - bookmarked and saved :lol:

Limit said:

Despite there being numerous pages and videos on how to bond rabbits, this has helped me the most - bookmarked and saved :lol:

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aw thanks, glad to hear that

Ditto to everything that's been said -- this is mega helpful to those thinking about bonding!
**thank you**

Brilliant thread :thumb:

This was flagged up as a good addition to the Old Useful Topics bonding sticky so I've added a link in there now. Thanks for putting it up here veejay; brilliant comprehensive advice. :thumb:

KarenM said:

This was flagged up as a good addition to the Old Useful Topics bonding sticky so I've added a link in there now. Thanks for putting it up here veejay; brilliant comprehensive advice. :thumb:

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Thank you Karen

Veejay was so kind to put all that down for us. I was hoping it would be kept for other rabbit owners

Hi, I have a female who's 10mnths and been spayed. We just got a boy yesterday who's approx four months but not neutered. We were advised to house him in a separate pen and he was in the garden but now he's in the kitchen which is her 'space'. We didn't want to leave him outside as want him to get familiarised with us too.
She's bigger than him and pretty feisty. He's quite timid and strikes me he'll be placid.
I am interested in what you say about separate pens. They have of course now communicated. She has shown some signs of anxiety because he's in her territory. They have sniffed each other and it looks like they're licking not biting and also they're chin rubbing. She has flopped down a few times by the pen and licked the floor which I have taken as a submissive sign.
Is it now best to let them get used to each other in that situation? That's what I was advised and also to put each other's litter in their boxes? Also, if we do put them together in a neutral space should we wait until after he's neutered?