Thank you for the support, it’s really appreciated.
I’m sorry for your loss, seeing a bun left behind is almost worse than the loss itself so I hope things work out for Morgan & Bella. I’ve found it helpful to keep a diary, it reminds me not to give up when things are tricky. Good luck to you all xx
We had a tough night last night where C turned into a gremlin again. There didn’t seem to be any cause, it’s as if she gets to a certain time and has had enough of it all - which is understandable. After my second night of no sleep I was close to giving up this morning so had my partner take over the bonding for the day whilst I slept.
A change of hoomin and energy seems to have done some good as they had a much more positive day. C went back to ignoring A and A has stopped running away when C lunges which has taken a lot of the tension out. C chose to lie closer to her and eat with her a few times and she now lets A pass without automatically threatening her. At one point A even cleaned C. A is now allowed to sleep on C’s blanket and the incessant pooping seems to have stopped.
This evening, for the first time all 3 were lying together. C had her back to A and was fast asleep snoring.
A&B have been wonderfully cuddly. She was leaning on him to steady herself while she cleaned and stole some herbs out of his mouth which he gladly gave up She will now seek him out and go and lie with him rather than be alone. She gets cold quickly and he’s keen on tight squeeze cuddles so it works well for them both. It’s very sweet and he’s like the cat that got the cream with all of his ladies (including me) loving him. He’s a lionhead with a long mane that they both enjoy cleaning, each time I see him he seems to have it styled differently!
Tonight, at around the same point again, C has started to return to her gremlin ways being snappy and controlling where A can go. She’s a strange beast but I know she’s trying her best and it must be difficult sharing her husbun. I’m amazed with A’s patience with it all, she couldn’t do more than she is.
It’ll be one week today that we started bonding and this is our third night session. I’m hoping we won’t be spending Christmas in the spare room
I’m sorry for your loss, seeing a bun left behind is almost worse than the loss itself so I hope things work out for Morgan & Bella. I’ve found it helpful to keep a diary, it reminds me not to give up when things are tricky. Good luck to you all xx
We had a tough night last night where C turned into a gremlin again. There didn’t seem to be any cause, it’s as if she gets to a certain time and has had enough of it all - which is understandable. After my second night of no sleep I was close to giving up this morning so had my partner take over the bonding for the day whilst I slept.
A change of hoomin and energy seems to have done some good as they had a much more positive day. C went back to ignoring A and A has stopped running away when C lunges which has taken a lot of the tension out. C chose to lie closer to her and eat with her a few times and she now lets A pass without automatically threatening her. At one point A even cleaned C. A is now allowed to sleep on C’s blanket and the incessant pooping seems to have stopped.
This evening, for the first time all 3 were lying together. C had her back to A and was fast asleep snoring.
A&B have been wonderfully cuddly. She was leaning on him to steady herself while she cleaned and stole some herbs out of his mouth which he gladly gave up She will now seek him out and go and lie with him rather than be alone. She gets cold quickly and he’s keen on tight squeeze cuddles so it works well for them both. It’s very sweet and he’s like the cat that got the cream with all of his ladies (including me) loving him. He’s a lionhead with a long mane that they both enjoy cleaning, each time I see him he seems to have it styled differently!
Tonight, at around the same point again, C has started to return to her gremlin ways being snappy and controlling where A can go. She’s a strange beast but I know she’s trying her best and it must be difficult sharing her husbun. I’m amazed with A’s patience with it all, she couldn’t do more than she is.
It’ll be one week today that we started bonding and this is our third night session. I’m hoping we won’t be spending Christmas in the spare room