I completely missed that you lost your precious Toby. Such a beautiful boy, and so very special to so many. You honoured us with glimpses into the life you shared, and for that, I can only say thank you. The hurt might never go away, but there will be a time when you adjust to the burden. Speaking from experience, I know that the more traumatic deaths make it even harder. My heart aches for you - and the Wayward Buns send their nose-nudges your way.
Toby, show off how to truly sploof at the bridge, now... xxx