Perhaps Max it is the meds, long shot but possible. My husband has fallen for her too and suggested we could keep her in the living room - she us so good already, litter trained herself and I can already open her pen for an hour for a run round before I go to work and she doesn't nibble anything. She will come running to me as well
but we r spending more time with her at the moment than with Oliver and he is aware of it for sure. We went into this with the view of getting a frind for Oliver not for us and that if it didn't work out she would be returned but I didn't expect to feel so much love for her so soon. I am too scared to put Oliver back in with her again, what if he got really baday injured? They went straight to locked on when fighting, no nips.
I know it's early days but I don't feel I have the strength within me any more to commit to a long slow bonding process - ,maybe due to the stress of bun sickness this past few years. That sounds such a cop out and I hate myself that I can't be laid back and not anxious about the whole thing
hubby thinks it's best if she is returned though but he admits he will miss her too. She is so happy with us too but from last night's bond attempt they both hate each other right now.