Rachel WD
Alpha Buck
Hi again,
So I actually found a bonder in Ulverston who my cousin had used and whilst not that convenient I was feeling overwhelmed and so I dropped my buns off 10 days ago. The lady had had lots of experience and I felt so much better knowing they were in good hands.
Quick history - have had Stanley for 3 years he was bonded to my old rabbit Millie who died in November. I got Laurel on new years eve, kept them separate whilst she was neutered then started introducing them in the bathroom. She hadn't been with another bun before and was a bit nippy towards Stan when he didn't start grooming her immediately, this made Stan move away from her. They would flop out near each other, eat, but eventually Stan would try to hump Laurel and she didn't like that and they would start spinning so I always stopped them before anything got out of hand.
I've heard back from the bonder and she feels Stan just doesn't like Laurel. There is no aggression between them but when together Stan does his best not to even look at Laurel. Is that strange? He'll bury his head in the corner of the run. Yet they'll sit together in a carrier if she puts one in with them.
I'm really confused and upset as I can't really have 2 single buns. I'm collecting them on Friday and yesterday I adapted Stan's shed so it is split in two. My plan is to have them both in there and keep swapping which side they are on and hope in time Stan realises that Laurel isn't too bad.
The bonder runs a rescue as well and tried Stan with another girl just out of interest and he took to her straight away so it's not that he wants to be on his own. She even offered to swap Laurel for another bun but I just can't do that, not yet anyway. I love her already. I guess I shouldn't have got attached before knowing if the bonding would be successful, but with her living in the house for 3 months we've already spent a lot of time together and the thought of giving her up makes me feel sick. Obviously Stan has to stay as it really wouldn't be fair to kick him out for being a moody sod.
So, my question is, do you think I am doing the right thing trying them in the shed for longer? Or am I going to cause more stress for one/both of them? I just feel if there is no aggression I should keep trying.
Original post here:
http://forums.rabbitrehome.org.uk/showthread.php?463579-Looking-for-a-bonder!
So I actually found a bonder in Ulverston who my cousin had used and whilst not that convenient I was feeling overwhelmed and so I dropped my buns off 10 days ago. The lady had had lots of experience and I felt so much better knowing they were in good hands.
Quick history - have had Stanley for 3 years he was bonded to my old rabbit Millie who died in November. I got Laurel on new years eve, kept them separate whilst she was neutered then started introducing them in the bathroom. She hadn't been with another bun before and was a bit nippy towards Stan when he didn't start grooming her immediately, this made Stan move away from her. They would flop out near each other, eat, but eventually Stan would try to hump Laurel and she didn't like that and they would start spinning so I always stopped them before anything got out of hand.
I've heard back from the bonder and she feels Stan just doesn't like Laurel. There is no aggression between them but when together Stan does his best not to even look at Laurel. Is that strange? He'll bury his head in the corner of the run. Yet they'll sit together in a carrier if she puts one in with them.
I'm really confused and upset as I can't really have 2 single buns. I'm collecting them on Friday and yesterday I adapted Stan's shed so it is split in two. My plan is to have them both in there and keep swapping which side they are on and hope in time Stan realises that Laurel isn't too bad.
The bonder runs a rescue as well and tried Stan with another girl just out of interest and he took to her straight away so it's not that he wants to be on his own. She even offered to swap Laurel for another bun but I just can't do that, not yet anyway. I love her already. I guess I shouldn't have got attached before knowing if the bonding would be successful, but with her living in the house for 3 months we've already spent a lot of time together and the thought of giving her up makes me feel sick. Obviously Stan has to stay as it really wouldn't be fair to kick him out for being a moody sod.
So, my question is, do you think I am doing the right thing trying them in the shed for longer? Or am I going to cause more stress for one/both of them? I just feel if there is no aggression I should keep trying.
Original post here:
http://forums.rabbitrehome.org.uk/showthread.php?463579-Looking-for-a-bonder!