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I originally posted about Daisy in Rabbit Chat (In Memoriam Daisy), but I noticed that the link I inserted in my post cannot be accessed via mobile unless you download the app. The link is an entry from my online journal where I am writing about Daisy, her life with us, her final days, my grief, my guilt and why her loss is so painful. I am copying the full text here, so if you are interested in our story, but just like me, you cannot open the page, you can read about us below. I apologise if you have seen my post before.
"Lady Daisy, our gorgeous bunny girl
We lost our gorgeous bunny girl, Daisy, a few days ago. We lost her unexpectedly and within just a few days. Her loss is something we need to come to terms with, and I decided to write about her, the good times we shared, the last days of her life and my grief. I try to find comfort in the happy memories and search for answers that, quite possibly, I will never find.
Meeting Daisy for the first time
My husband and I have been parents of a bunny boy, Nyunyu, for just over 6 years now. Nyunyu is my first pet, I didn't have pets as a child, so I didn't know what it's like to have an animal in my life until I was over 20 years old. But I'm so-so happy that finally I could experience this special bond. Nyunyu is a house rabbit, many people say he is a big bunny. Well, he is not a dwarf, that's for sure, but he is not huge. Although, there are dogs smaller than him, so you know.
He was 4 years old when we decided we should find a lovely bunny wife for him. We read quite a lot about bonded bunnies, and although Nyunyu was perfectly happy with us, we thought he would be even happier with a bunny companion. So we started looking around, and my husband found Daisy. We contacted the rescue and arranged a bonding session that we attended with Nyunyu. Daisy was even more beautiful in real life than in the photos, a little lop dwarf rabbit, and we really hoped the two of them would get on well with each other. During the bonding session, things seemed to have been going to the right direction, so we adopted Daisy in August 2014.
Image 1: Daisy's photo on the rescue's website
Nyunyu and Daisy - bonding not happening, are we the right family for her?
When we adopted Daisy she was about 9 months old and already had a litter. Her babies had already been adopted and it was only her looking for a husbun. We were told that she was given up by her previous owner because they felt they had too many rabbits. We did not know anything about her life with her previous owner, but it was clear that she was not used to humans. She was afraid of us, did not let us pet her - which we respected, of course - and she was looking for comfort from Nyunyu. And that's when things took a 180 degrees turn compared to what we saw at the bonding session. Nyunyu became aggressive and territorial. He did not accept Daisy, tried to scare her and you could tell that Daisy was confused and disappointed. She was in a new place, she didn't trust us, and the only being she would have been comfortable with rejected her. We read about bonding a lot and we knew that it could take weeks or even months to bond two rabbits, you just need to provide a neutral place and be very patient. We tried to provide neutral places, and we tried to build their relationship very slowly, increasing the time they spent together literally minute by minute every day. First day, spending 1 minute together, second day, spending 2 minutes together and so on, and so on. Weeks were passing by and nothing happened: they did not get closer and Daisy still kept her distance from us. She knew that we were the people who gave her food, cleaned her "room", and she also saw how we were treating Nyunyu and how much Nyunyu loved us, but it was clear that first and foremost she wanted a husbun. So, we seriously started questioning whether we are the right family for her. We thought that if Nyunyu is so rigid and not willing to accept her as his companion, and she cannot trust us, then maybe it would be better for her if she was with a bunny who could be her true partner, even though giving her up would have broken our hearts because we fell in love with her immediately. But as time was passing by, Daisy did not only open towards us, but actually started to love us. She did not only let us pet her, but she requested it, she showered us with bunny kisses and looked for comfort from us, especially from my husband. Daisy became a real daddy's girl, and even though she and Nyunyu did not become a couple, they learned to live together in peace and she was a happy bunny with us.
Image 2: Nyunyu and Daisy
Life with Daisy
Daisy was a real energy bomb. She was active, very agile, incredibly fast and told us what she wanted and when she wanted it. She changed so much during that almost two years she spent with us. At the beginning, she didn't like humans, but when she finally trusted us, she was open towards strangers as well. But she didn't let you pet her just out of the blue, you had to earn her trust first. She was a real character, a very cheeky girl. She always tried to go to the "forbidden" places. Our bedroom is a no-no place because it's not bunny proofed, but whenever the door was opening she always tried to sneak in. Or if you didn't close the bathroom door properly, she was there to visit you and ensure you about her support. Once I accidentally closed her in the bathroom because I didn't notice she sneaked in. I came back to the living room and saw that Daisy was not in her place, so we started looking for her like crazy. We couldn't find her anywhere, she didn't respond when we called her, so when we were just about to freak out I went back to the bathroom and there she was. Then she gracefully walked out, just like a lady, and started looking for the next cheeky thing she could do. For example, jumping up on the TV cabinet's shelf. Or on the top of the sofa and sit there like a little parrot. Or she started to rattle her cage - even though the door was open, so she could have easily jumped out - to get our attention and some complimentary stroking. And she was foody, oh boy, did she love her food! Dill, coriander, banana, apple, pear, watermelon, dried dandelion, just to list a few of her favourite treats. She was the most affectionate and most beautiful bunny girl I have ever seen.
Image 3: "If I seem to be sitting on the shelf of the TV cabinet it's only because I am" (Daisy)
"Lady Daisy, our gorgeous bunny girl
We lost our gorgeous bunny girl, Daisy, a few days ago. We lost her unexpectedly and within just a few days. Her loss is something we need to come to terms with, and I decided to write about her, the good times we shared, the last days of her life and my grief. I try to find comfort in the happy memories and search for answers that, quite possibly, I will never find.
Meeting Daisy for the first time
My husband and I have been parents of a bunny boy, Nyunyu, for just over 6 years now. Nyunyu is my first pet, I didn't have pets as a child, so I didn't know what it's like to have an animal in my life until I was over 20 years old. But I'm so-so happy that finally I could experience this special bond. Nyunyu is a house rabbit, many people say he is a big bunny. Well, he is not a dwarf, that's for sure, but he is not huge. Although, there are dogs smaller than him, so you know.
He was 4 years old when we decided we should find a lovely bunny wife for him. We read quite a lot about bonded bunnies, and although Nyunyu was perfectly happy with us, we thought he would be even happier with a bunny companion. So we started looking around, and my husband found Daisy. We contacted the rescue and arranged a bonding session that we attended with Nyunyu. Daisy was even more beautiful in real life than in the photos, a little lop dwarf rabbit, and we really hoped the two of them would get on well with each other. During the bonding session, things seemed to have been going to the right direction, so we adopted Daisy in August 2014.
Image 1: Daisy's photo on the rescue's website
Nyunyu and Daisy - bonding not happening, are we the right family for her?
When we adopted Daisy she was about 9 months old and already had a litter. Her babies had already been adopted and it was only her looking for a husbun. We were told that she was given up by her previous owner because they felt they had too many rabbits. We did not know anything about her life with her previous owner, but it was clear that she was not used to humans. She was afraid of us, did not let us pet her - which we respected, of course - and she was looking for comfort from Nyunyu. And that's when things took a 180 degrees turn compared to what we saw at the bonding session. Nyunyu became aggressive and territorial. He did not accept Daisy, tried to scare her and you could tell that Daisy was confused and disappointed. She was in a new place, she didn't trust us, and the only being she would have been comfortable with rejected her. We read about bonding a lot and we knew that it could take weeks or even months to bond two rabbits, you just need to provide a neutral place and be very patient. We tried to provide neutral places, and we tried to build their relationship very slowly, increasing the time they spent together literally minute by minute every day. First day, spending 1 minute together, second day, spending 2 minutes together and so on, and so on. Weeks were passing by and nothing happened: they did not get closer and Daisy still kept her distance from us. She knew that we were the people who gave her food, cleaned her "room", and she also saw how we were treating Nyunyu and how much Nyunyu loved us, but it was clear that first and foremost she wanted a husbun. So, we seriously started questioning whether we are the right family for her. We thought that if Nyunyu is so rigid and not willing to accept her as his companion, and she cannot trust us, then maybe it would be better for her if she was with a bunny who could be her true partner, even though giving her up would have broken our hearts because we fell in love with her immediately. But as time was passing by, Daisy did not only open towards us, but actually started to love us. She did not only let us pet her, but she requested it, she showered us with bunny kisses and looked for comfort from us, especially from my husband. Daisy became a real daddy's girl, and even though she and Nyunyu did not become a couple, they learned to live together in peace and she was a happy bunny with us.
Image 2: Nyunyu and Daisy
Life with Daisy
Daisy was a real energy bomb. She was active, very agile, incredibly fast and told us what she wanted and when she wanted it. She changed so much during that almost two years she spent with us. At the beginning, she didn't like humans, but when she finally trusted us, she was open towards strangers as well. But she didn't let you pet her just out of the blue, you had to earn her trust first. She was a real character, a very cheeky girl. She always tried to go to the "forbidden" places. Our bedroom is a no-no place because it's not bunny proofed, but whenever the door was opening she always tried to sneak in. Or if you didn't close the bathroom door properly, she was there to visit you and ensure you about her support. Once I accidentally closed her in the bathroom because I didn't notice she sneaked in. I came back to the living room and saw that Daisy was not in her place, so we started looking for her like crazy. We couldn't find her anywhere, she didn't respond when we called her, so when we were just about to freak out I went back to the bathroom and there she was. Then she gracefully walked out, just like a lady, and started looking for the next cheeky thing she could do. For example, jumping up on the TV cabinet's shelf. Or on the top of the sofa and sit there like a little parrot. Or she started to rattle her cage - even though the door was open, so she could have easily jumped out - to get our attention and some complimentary stroking. And she was foody, oh boy, did she love her food! Dill, coriander, banana, apple, pear, watermelon, dried dandelion, just to list a few of her favourite treats. She was the most affectionate and most beautiful bunny girl I have ever seen.
Image 3: "If I seem to be sitting on the shelf of the TV cabinet it's only because I am" (Daisy)