I've recently lost my beloved Merlin He was a wonderful 8 years old but contracted snuffles & a resp infection, he faught it so bravely for 3 weeks bless him on anti biotics, pain relief and lots of extra TLC
Unfortunately though his mind was VERY willing he sadly passed away on Sunday 25th - I was devastated, he's been my companion for so long, held MANY secrets and was such an awesome friend, his personality was naughty, but loving, and I am so so missing his cuddles already - I haven't yet had the heart to clear up all his bits, and his dog crate that he use to use as his "base" there's something a little soul destroying about clearing away the food and hay and toys without him going back in it.
With him being ill for so long, he did loose a lot of his character, he still loved his cuddles, and breakfast, but a LOT of his personality went with that illness, he lost an awful lot of weight and it was me alone nursing him as my OH had to work.. It's a great BIG hole he's left.
My point is how soon is too soon to be getting another bunny, I know it must be different for everyone, but yesterday I rang my local rescue to see if they had bunnies in, they've offered me to come down for a look and a cuddle (they only have a few in though) BUT is this too soon?
Obviously there's no harm in looking but surely I can't be ready for this, it feels like Merlin has been gone for longer then his actual passing due to him being poorly, but am I just trying to cover my hurt.. I have grieved.. Immensly for him, he's had a cremation too and I have his ashes in a sun trap as he loved sunning his furs... But my house is just so quiet & empty.
I've tried talking to my OH but her & Merlin did not really have a great bond as we did, as she came later on the scene and I am sure Merlin was not impressed with sharing mummy's attentions lol xx
Sorry for the long post.. I just have no one to talk to at home.. Too much have I heard "He is just a bun" xx
Unfortunately though his mind was VERY willing he sadly passed away on Sunday 25th - I was devastated, he's been my companion for so long, held MANY secrets and was such an awesome friend, his personality was naughty, but loving, and I am so so missing his cuddles already - I haven't yet had the heart to clear up all his bits, and his dog crate that he use to use as his "base" there's something a little soul destroying about clearing away the food and hay and toys without him going back in it.
With him being ill for so long, he did loose a lot of his character, he still loved his cuddles, and breakfast, but a LOT of his personality went with that illness, he lost an awful lot of weight and it was me alone nursing him as my OH had to work.. It's a great BIG hole he's left.
My point is how soon is too soon to be getting another bunny, I know it must be different for everyone, but yesterday I rang my local rescue to see if they had bunnies in, they've offered me to come down for a look and a cuddle (they only have a few in though) BUT is this too soon?
Obviously there's no harm in looking but surely I can't be ready for this, it feels like Merlin has been gone for longer then his actual passing due to him being poorly, but am I just trying to cover my hurt.. I have grieved.. Immensly for him, he's had a cremation too and I have his ashes in a sun trap as he loved sunning his furs... But my house is just so quiet & empty.
I've tried talking to my OH but her & Merlin did not really have a great bond as we did, as she came later on the scene and I am sure Merlin was not impressed with sharing mummy's attentions lol xx
Sorry for the long post.. I just have no one to talk to at home.. Too much have I heard "He is just a bun" xx