HarrytheHop
Young Bun
Hi all,
After getting Harry neutered a couple of weeks ago, I contacted a local rescue about finding a girlfriend for him. Went last night and fell in love with a bun who is a minilop like him and the same age (6mths). We introduced them and all went well - both relaxed, female (who my daughter has called Petal) grooming Harry. The idea had been that rescue would do the bonding, but she has too much on so gave me advice on how to do it and I brought Petal home.
Advice was:
- divide Harry's playhouse in half and keep them side by side, swapping them over regularly.
- bring them in and get them to sit side by side on the sofa while stroking them both.
- when happy with that, move them into a small pen for dates, putting in boxes and obstacles to limit the space to reduce chasing.
- keep a strict eye on them, stroking them both and creating a calm atmosphere.
- do this for a couple of weeks (or as long as it takes) before removing divide in house and keeping them together permanently.
- she said not to worry about neutralising or doing on neutral ground as futile as won't be able to fool Harry.
Brought them in this morning and they sat very nicely next to each other on sofa. I then, foolishly, put them into the pen, which was fine initially until Harry got frisky and literally wouldn't leave her alone. I didn't know whether to pull him off her or leave him to it. She was clearly getting stressed and it felt like it was going to kick off, so I lost my nerve and put them back in their divided house.
Feel like an idiot for bringing her home when I don't really know what I'm doing. Also wonder if his hormones are still too much of an issue for bonding to be successful.
What should I do next? Rescue has said for me to give bonding a go and if still struggling in a couple of weeks, to take them to her and she'll take it on. Shall I take it back to sitting on sofa with them and build it up from there. To what degree do you have to just let them get on with it?
Thanks - and sorry for the epic post!
Laura
After getting Harry neutered a couple of weeks ago, I contacted a local rescue about finding a girlfriend for him. Went last night and fell in love with a bun who is a minilop like him and the same age (6mths). We introduced them and all went well - both relaxed, female (who my daughter has called Petal) grooming Harry. The idea had been that rescue would do the bonding, but she has too much on so gave me advice on how to do it and I brought Petal home.
Advice was:
- divide Harry's playhouse in half and keep them side by side, swapping them over regularly.
- bring them in and get them to sit side by side on the sofa while stroking them both.
- when happy with that, move them into a small pen for dates, putting in boxes and obstacles to limit the space to reduce chasing.
- keep a strict eye on them, stroking them both and creating a calm atmosphere.
- do this for a couple of weeks (or as long as it takes) before removing divide in house and keeping them together permanently.
- she said not to worry about neutralising or doing on neutral ground as futile as won't be able to fool Harry.
Brought them in this morning and they sat very nicely next to each other on sofa. I then, foolishly, put them into the pen, which was fine initially until Harry got frisky and literally wouldn't leave her alone. I didn't know whether to pull him off her or leave him to it. She was clearly getting stressed and it felt like it was going to kick off, so I lost my nerve and put them back in their divided house.
Feel like an idiot for bringing her home when I don't really know what I'm doing. Also wonder if his hormones are still too much of an issue for bonding to be successful.
What should I do next? Rescue has said for me to give bonding a go and if still struggling in a couple of weeks, to take them to her and she'll take it on. Shall I take it back to sitting on sofa with them and build it up from there. To what degree do you have to just let them get on with it?
Thanks - and sorry for the epic post!
Laura