nickybunny1
Mama Doe
I really really do not know what to do !!
I had four free range house bunnies all bonded - until my Lance passed away two months ago leaving me with my two boys Oliver (3 years old) and Cody (6 years old) and my girl Rosie (6 years old)
After Lance passed away the other three seemed to all be ok - rosie and oliver were always closer but all 3 would still snuggle together from time to time but now for this past couple of weeks Cody (6 years old) seems to hid away under a box near their living area and seems so jumpy around the others and afraid of them - rosie would give him a tiny nip the odd time especially around food and as soon as she does he runs to the litter tray or into his box to hid - he is afraid of her at times. He spends so much time under the box and his appetite is less - still eatting though but the other two are more into doing their own thing so run aorund the house. Cody would have been more of a loner anyway but i am not sure if thats because he never had a close bond with any of the other bunnies. I am soo afraid that he is getting depressed. He is sort of agraphopic too though as they live in the kitchen but he will go outside to the garden by sticking tight to the skirting boards but will not put a step from the kitchen into the hall. The other two go into every room available.
I cant help but think he is soo lonely and is being bullied now and that i am depriving him of having a one to one bond with a female somewhere and not have to worry about being bullied - i know deep down he is unhappy and it is breaking my heart. Problem is even if i thought that he would be happy with another bun i cannot get another parter for him as after loosing lance i have decided after my bunnies are no longer with me that i wont ever get any more pets as the pain of loosing them is unbearable.
Here is the question - my only rehoming option is to take him back to the sanctuary where he came from but what if he goes to a home where they keep him in a hutch , want to lift him, too many kids poking him, he is such a sesitive gentle soul and would he be really stressed at the santuary but at least he would have a partner hopefully. I really need him to have a free range home like he currently has as he has never been caged in the 6 years he has been with us. i dont know what to do for the best as he deserves to be happy but is he better staying with me in his current situation and hope that it improves or do i try to rehome ?? Does he deserve to have a wifebun after all these years being the outsider? i so want to do the best for him even though it would kill me to hand him over but if i thought the perfect home was out there i would. The stress of this is making me ill worrying about him.
I had four free range house bunnies all bonded - until my Lance passed away two months ago leaving me with my two boys Oliver (3 years old) and Cody (6 years old) and my girl Rosie (6 years old)
After Lance passed away the other three seemed to all be ok - rosie and oliver were always closer but all 3 would still snuggle together from time to time but now for this past couple of weeks Cody (6 years old) seems to hid away under a box near their living area and seems so jumpy around the others and afraid of them - rosie would give him a tiny nip the odd time especially around food and as soon as she does he runs to the litter tray or into his box to hid - he is afraid of her at times. He spends so much time under the box and his appetite is less - still eatting though but the other two are more into doing their own thing so run aorund the house. Cody would have been more of a loner anyway but i am not sure if thats because he never had a close bond with any of the other bunnies. I am soo afraid that he is getting depressed. He is sort of agraphopic too though as they live in the kitchen but he will go outside to the garden by sticking tight to the skirting boards but will not put a step from the kitchen into the hall. The other two go into every room available.
I cant help but think he is soo lonely and is being bullied now and that i am depriving him of having a one to one bond with a female somewhere and not have to worry about being bullied - i know deep down he is unhappy and it is breaking my heart. Problem is even if i thought that he would be happy with another bun i cannot get another parter for him as after loosing lance i have decided after my bunnies are no longer with me that i wont ever get any more pets as the pain of loosing them is unbearable.
Here is the question - my only rehoming option is to take him back to the sanctuary where he came from but what if he goes to a home where they keep him in a hutch , want to lift him, too many kids poking him, he is such a sesitive gentle soul and would he be really stressed at the santuary but at least he would have a partner hopefully. I really need him to have a free range home like he currently has as he has never been caged in the 6 years he has been with us. i dont know what to do for the best as he deserves to be happy but is he better staying with me in his current situation and hope that it improves or do i try to rehome ?? Does he deserve to have a wifebun after all these years being the outsider? i so want to do the best for him even though it would kill me to hand him over but if i thought the perfect home was out there i would. The stress of this is making me ill worrying about him.