rebeccaemms
Warren Scout
Hi
I am bonding my old man bunny for the third time as he has outlived his two previous partners. Both times before he has bonded fairly easily - the first one I'm pretty sure he was the dominant bun but the second was a fairly even match and they were very happy together.
This third bun has now arrived and she is a little cutie - so cheeky and self-assured but the bonding is not going well so far. Both of the previous times I had it very easy - they were bonded within a couple of days and living together within the week but this has been entirely different.....
On day 1 we divided Benjamin's run in half and placed an old hutch inside his indoor shed area and have been rotating the bunnies round every day - so each day they take a different half of the divided run and each night they swap between being in the hutch or the shed. On that first day they had a sniff through the bars only and it was an instant dislike....Benjamin was quite territorial and was grunting and trying to dig through the bars and the other rabbit - Sugar Plum was fighting back too.
On day 2 the fighting and grunting had stopped and there was an air of indifference - they were ignoring each other completely...thought this was a good sign so I put them on neutral territory together - big mistake though as a fight started immediately so took them back to their runs.
On day 3 they appeared indifferent again so tried them in the bath and Benjamin sat very still and low with his head bowed while Sugar Plum ate the treats, she approached him and bit his face and he ignored the first two but then retaliated on the third and a tussle started.
The same thing has happened now on days 4 and 5 - he sits low and still and she approaches and bites him until he bites back.
Is there hope???? I know this is still early and I'm really pleased to have seen the change in Benjamin that he started vicious and has stopped instigating the attacks but is it just a waiting game to see whether Sugar Plum will stop biting him? Is he waiting to be groomed by her which she won't indulge in - is this a tussle for power? I'm really confused by the signs being given by both of them. I've got the time to wait and see how it goes but I would rather have a sign soon if I can that there is hope for them because it's already going to be so hard to give Sugar Plum back so I'd hate to get even more attached to her but the bottom line is that we need a new mate
I am bonding my old man bunny for the third time as he has outlived his two previous partners. Both times before he has bonded fairly easily - the first one I'm pretty sure he was the dominant bun but the second was a fairly even match and they were very happy together.
This third bun has now arrived and she is a little cutie - so cheeky and self-assured but the bonding is not going well so far. Both of the previous times I had it very easy - they were bonded within a couple of days and living together within the week but this has been entirely different.....
On day 1 we divided Benjamin's run in half and placed an old hutch inside his indoor shed area and have been rotating the bunnies round every day - so each day they take a different half of the divided run and each night they swap between being in the hutch or the shed. On that first day they had a sniff through the bars only and it was an instant dislike....Benjamin was quite territorial and was grunting and trying to dig through the bars and the other rabbit - Sugar Plum was fighting back too.
On day 2 the fighting and grunting had stopped and there was an air of indifference - they were ignoring each other completely...thought this was a good sign so I put them on neutral territory together - big mistake though as a fight started immediately so took them back to their runs.
On day 3 they appeared indifferent again so tried them in the bath and Benjamin sat very still and low with his head bowed while Sugar Plum ate the treats, she approached him and bit his face and he ignored the first two but then retaliated on the third and a tussle started.
The same thing has happened now on days 4 and 5 - he sits low and still and she approaches and bites him until he bites back.
Is there hope???? I know this is still early and I'm really pleased to have seen the change in Benjamin that he started vicious and has stopped instigating the attacks but is it just a waiting game to see whether Sugar Plum will stop biting him? Is he waiting to be groomed by her which she won't indulge in - is this a tussle for power? I'm really confused by the signs being given by both of them. I've got the time to wait and see how it goes but I would rather have a sign soon if I can that there is hope for them because it's already going to be so hard to give Sugar Plum back so I'd hate to get even more attached to her but the bottom line is that we need a new mate