I think we've all established that giving up the buns is very difficult, although the transition is eased if you're very happy following the homecheck...
But how about turning people down after a homecheck...does that get any easier? Or do you just feel really happy when they're rude to you because then you know you've made the right decision
I just spoke to the person locally to me who wanted to adopt Chloe and I very politely told her why, and she just said "whatever" and slammed the phone down. I'd originally told her I'd think about it, and being a complete coward, had been putting off phoning her for ages. Does it get easier over time to tell people straight away, or is it always going to be awful (but great that you were right in insisting on a homecheck!)
But how about turning people down after a homecheck...does that get any easier? Or do you just feel really happy when they're rude to you because then you know you've made the right decision
I just spoke to the person locally to me who wanted to adopt Chloe and I very politely told her why, and she just said "whatever" and slammed the phone down. I'd originally told her I'd think about it, and being a complete coward, had been putting off phoning her for ages. Does it get easier over time to tell people straight away, or is it always going to be awful (but great that you were right in insisting on a homecheck!)