nickybunny1
Mama Doe
So after Oliver being on his own for nearly 5 months and being obviously lonely, the sanctuary has got in touch to say they have a 1 year old girl (who was dumped and has to be neutered ) available that they would offer me to foster. They wold cover vet costs but with her being so young I would hope she would be heathly for a lon time. Anyhow my husband who has been sooo supportive in the past with my babies through all their sicknesses and vet bills said I can only foster if I agree to hand her back when Oliver goes to the bridge. I don't think in theory his request is unreasonable as he has been soo amazing with all the support ,health issues and bills . He is concerned about the emotional toll that it takes on me and I agree it has been hard but I loved them all so much and made sure they got the best of everything. He knows I go to pieces when they r sick - I don't eat until they do !
My dilemma is , is it going to be harder to watch Olivery alone for the next 3- 4 years (he is 7 now) or harder to let a bun go back to what appears to be a very caring sanctuary in 3-4 years ??, I have to make my decision bases on the fact that I want to break the bunny cycle. I am just not strong enough to deal with loosing more to rainbow bridge.
The stress of this situation is awful. I don't know what to do for the best.
My dilemma is , is it going to be harder to watch Olivery alone for the next 3- 4 years (he is 7 now) or harder to let a bun go back to what appears to be a very caring sanctuary in 3-4 years ??, I have to make my decision bases on the fact that I want to break the bunny cycle. I am just not strong enough to deal with loosing more to rainbow bridge.
The stress of this situation is awful. I don't know what to do for the best.