Ah...well...
That explains it then! :lol:
That is odd that she is trying so hard to ignore you, how long has your OH had her? Perhaps she sees you as "the other woman"! :shock:
When I met my OH he had a beautiful black long hair Persian cross named Dracula and when I went over to his place for the first time, I squealed and scooped this poor cat up and turned him over and my OH lost all the color in his face and told me I shouldn't do that, because Drac would filet me...but he was so taken aback he just kind of looked at my OH like, "Dad...help? Are you going to let her do this to me?" It was so funny. I proceeded to tickle him on his tummy just like I did with my three cats at the time (I always seem to keep them in groups of three) and he was stymied that Drac wasn't turning me into mince meat. :lol:
Riley sure is beautiful though, and I'll wager she's just messing with you knowing you'd like a closer relationship.
They can be so standoffish for no good reason. :roll: