Hello everybody,
I would appreciate some advice regarding bonding, I have grown up caring for rabbits but have never bonded a pair before. Some background information on my situation; I currently have two rabbits; a male and a female, both neutered and spayed respectively. They are both approximately 8-9 months old, but I got the male several months before I got the female. He was a very good rabbit on his own and enjoys human company and attention, he is pretty spoiled since he had the run of my apartment and didn't have any other pets to compete for attention with. I got the female when I started having to work long hours hoping that he would not be lonely, though to be honest he seemed to be doing fine on his own. The area where I live in does not have any rescue organizations where I could have taken him to sort of choose his own partner, so while I realize it is better for rabbits to choose each other that wasn't an option in this case. I kept the rabbits in separate cages right next to each other and alternated their outside time until I was able to get the female spayed, about a month after I got her. She is much less sociable than the male and generally avoids people and isn't big on being petted. After her spay surgery and recovery I started trying to bond them. I brought them to neutral spaces, and put them in the bathtub, tried stress bonding and even rubbed banana on both of their heads in attempt to warm them up to each other.
For the first several weeks whenever I started a bonding session, wherever it was, after a few moments the male would start biting at the female's hind quarters and she would thump her foot and run as far away as the space would allow. When I rubbed banana on the males face she would eat it off and then move away. The male continued biting at her hind quarters and when I introduced them into a larger space he would charge at her and she would run away. It got to the point where she just seemed to be scared of him and even if he approached in a non aggressive manner she would run away. However, very suddenly one night he was able to sort of corner her and began grooming her. I was really thrilled but it seems like at this point several weeks later this is as far as they have come. The male will groom the female and rarely she will groom him, though he seems to approach her for it pretty frequently, but she still often hops away from him. She seems to tolerate the grooming but doesn't reciprocate (I realize often this is a form of dominance and is natural). They will both sit in the same general area but she often still runs away if he approaches her, I kind of think maybe his aggressive behavior in the past sort of scarred her. At this point I am just wondering if this is as closely bonded as some rabbits get; basically to the point where they tolerate each other but aren't really friends. Has anybody else had their rabbits act like this and still become closer over time? Are some rabbit pairs just not meant to be? I want them both to have happy comfortable lives and I was under the impression that in general rabbits are happier in pairs or groups but at this point it seems like they aren't particularly enamored of each other. Does this even count as bonded?
I would appreciate some advice regarding bonding, I have grown up caring for rabbits but have never bonded a pair before. Some background information on my situation; I currently have two rabbits; a male and a female, both neutered and spayed respectively. They are both approximately 8-9 months old, but I got the male several months before I got the female. He was a very good rabbit on his own and enjoys human company and attention, he is pretty spoiled since he had the run of my apartment and didn't have any other pets to compete for attention with. I got the female when I started having to work long hours hoping that he would not be lonely, though to be honest he seemed to be doing fine on his own. The area where I live in does not have any rescue organizations where I could have taken him to sort of choose his own partner, so while I realize it is better for rabbits to choose each other that wasn't an option in this case. I kept the rabbits in separate cages right next to each other and alternated their outside time until I was able to get the female spayed, about a month after I got her. She is much less sociable than the male and generally avoids people and isn't big on being petted. After her spay surgery and recovery I started trying to bond them. I brought them to neutral spaces, and put them in the bathtub, tried stress bonding and even rubbed banana on both of their heads in attempt to warm them up to each other.
For the first several weeks whenever I started a bonding session, wherever it was, after a few moments the male would start biting at the female's hind quarters and she would thump her foot and run as far away as the space would allow. When I rubbed banana on the males face she would eat it off and then move away. The male continued biting at her hind quarters and when I introduced them into a larger space he would charge at her and she would run away. It got to the point where she just seemed to be scared of him and even if he approached in a non aggressive manner she would run away. However, very suddenly one night he was able to sort of corner her and began grooming her. I was really thrilled but it seems like at this point several weeks later this is as far as they have come. The male will groom the female and rarely she will groom him, though he seems to approach her for it pretty frequently, but she still often hops away from him. She seems to tolerate the grooming but doesn't reciprocate (I realize often this is a form of dominance and is natural). They will both sit in the same general area but she often still runs away if he approaches her, I kind of think maybe his aggressive behavior in the past sort of scarred her. At this point I am just wondering if this is as closely bonded as some rabbits get; basically to the point where they tolerate each other but aren't really friends. Has anybody else had their rabbits act like this and still become closer over time? Are some rabbit pairs just not meant to be? I want them both to have happy comfortable lives and I was under the impression that in general rabbits are happier in pairs or groups but at this point it seems like they aren't particularly enamored of each other. Does this even count as bonded?