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I have been keeping a secret !!!

luna

Mama Doe
So for the last week I have been keeping a secret. We have adopted a cat and her name is Matilda. She is 9 months old and came from a rescue called Cats Aid in Dublin. The reason I haven't told RU is because I feared I would be judged. As most of you know, in October I rehomed my two bunnies to Tash and Michele who are on the forum.

There were several reasons for this which I am going to explain so that hopefully people will understand my reason for getting a cat. Firstly let me start by saying this was not our plan, to rehome our rabbits in order to get a cat. I just wanted to make that clear from the start.

My reason for rehoming the rabbits was because of the stress I was feeling being a rabbit owner and the fact that they were very high maintenance from both an emotional and physical standpoint. I had MANY vet visits in my last two years of rabbit ownership and my vet was one hour away. I have chronic back pain so these two hour car journeys were becoming increasingly difficult. The other reason was that we haven't been able to take a holiday in almost 4 years as there was no one I could trust to look after the buns due to their delicate nature and the fact there are no good rabbit boarding facilities in Dublin. Unfortunately, having such a high maintenance pet was no longer working for us. But almost two months on I am very happy with my decision and with the wonderful homes that they found.

Deep down we knew we wouldn't be a pet free home forever and a week on from rehoming Rosie and Freddie, we got news that our son has ASD ( aspergers syndrome). I have been doing lots of research on autism and one of the things that stood out is how children with autism can benefit from having a pet that they can interact with. So both myself and my husband thought it would be a good idea to adopt a cat as a family pet. The bunnies were very much MY pet and I did ALL their care but we agreed that if we were to take on a cat that it would be a family effort and the tasks would be divided up and my son could have the job of playing with her, hubby can feed and I can do litter box :roll: Hehe ....yes I got the most fun task of all !!!! Before approaching the rescue I did a lot of research on catteries and have found an amazing one that is just ten mins away plus we have a cat vet called "just cats" that is literally two mins in the car and only treat cats. I could walk there if i wanted.

So thats it really, we made the decisions to adopt a cat .... I hope RU can understand that this wasn't our plan when rehoming the bunnies. But it just feels right and is far less taxing on me physically. I'm not doing half as much bending and I have even set up her feeding station at a height that is comfortable for me to get to when I am feeding her. Sorry I know I have probably gone way overboard with my explanation. I am just a little anxious about how this is going to be received. I couldn't keep it to myself anymore and I love sharing things with my RU family.

Pictures to follow. I am going to send them from my phone in a minute xx
 
Awww! As an Aspie, like Dylan, I've definitely found my cats help. I love them to bits and we've got a very strong bond :)

Can't wait to see the photos xx
 
I for one am not judging you for your desicison and im glad you could give a cat a loving home :love: cant wait for the pictures :)
 
Aww thanks so much aaammmyyy and MummyBunnyEm ;)

Jane , Dylan loves Matilda. She comes into him in the mornings to say hi and his little face lights up xx
 
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happy catting! no, that's something else... right... erm... welcome, luna's cat, and may you all have many happy years together. :D:wave:
 
Awww! As an Aspie, like Dylan, I've definitely found my cats help. I love them to bits and we've got a very strong bond :)

Can't wait to see the photos xx
Sorry JemimaH ... I missed your reply for some reason. Yeah I am really hoping they form a little bond and become friends. It's good to hear that cats help you too xx
 
Congratulations on your new addition. Yes. Rabbits are such high maintainance I love mine but do feel that once they go I wont be getting any more. As you say, its not easy finding someone to look after them if you want to go away.

How AMAZING that you have a specialist cat vet just down the road! Brilliant.

I have seen first hand (used to work with various autistic children) how animals really are valuable bonding assets! My animals certainly help me.

I can absolutely see why you got a cat. Great that you have a decent rescue near by as well.
 
Congratulations! She's lovely!

It was obvious when rehoming Rosie and Freddie that you were doing so because your health was suffering with the stress. I think everyone on here will understand that! You found them good homes, you didn't dump them, you did nothing wrong! It's clear you didn't rehome because you wanted a cat instead. ;)

Looking forward to more piccies!

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Congratulations on your new puddytat ! She is gorgeous Luna (and looks a lot like my George !) wouldn't dream of judging you either, bunnies are extremely stressful and hardwork. To be honest, if I'd known the work involved, I would never have had mine. I love them to bits, but I'm turned 60 now, we have deep snow at the moment, and I'm sick of traipsing back and forth to their shed. I'll keep doing it though, but I'll think they'll outlive me at this rate :lol:
I'm sure Dylan will enjoy a special bond for many years.
Look after yourself, hope you get a holiday now ! :thumb:
 
Aww shes beautiful, looks like shes very content in her new home.

Yes bunnies are high maintenance and we too have made the decision that when we no longer have our two boys we wont be replacing them.

Cats are my first love with bunnies on the side
 
Matilda is just beautiful! :love:

I have a friend who runs a cat rescue and periodically they would go over to Ireland to collect cats and kittens, many feral, as the rescue situation was so dire there and cats were just being abandoned. (I had two of the kittens). Unfortunately they can no longer do this because they are inundated with local cats and kittens in need of rescue places.
 
Bless you Luna ! I've always found you to be such a wonderful, caring and thoughtful presence on RU... and i'm so happy that things are easing for you a little bit now... many happinesses and pussy cat lovings to you and your family.
Matilda is beautiful! :love: X
 
Awww I love cats and would love to have one myself! And I know what you mean re bunnies being high maintenance! I had no idea until I joined RU and it was a bit :shock: I love them to pieces, but it was much easier when I had snakes!! Even when I was breeding snakes and had approx 100, they were only as much trouble as my six bunnies and much cheaper to care for!! I won't be having 6 bunnies again that's for sure. My maximum in future is two setups of normal sized buns or a pair free ranging if one's a Conti!
 
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