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Mr Cookie
26-09-2014, 04:05 PM
It's been a month since my 8yr old house bun died. I loved him, goes without saying.

I cry most days for a minute or two, once or thrice.

And yet I have this paradoxical feeling... I miss him so bad and cannot believe he is gone, yet also a feeling that I never really had him at all....

Like going or working somewhere and then leaving and wondering whether you were ever there at all, and yet you were?

Not sure this makes sense.

26-09-2014, 04:20 PM
I think it is understandable you feel the way you do, he was a big part of your life for so long and particularly as he was a house bun. Different people go through grief in different ways, I don't think there is a normal way as such.

I hope you will decide one day to give another bun the chance to share your life with you :thumb: