Thank you now I've been sick a few times. The worst thing is making it back at work they won't let you take emergency holidays now it's a joke and I have to make it back in September. I said I can't do this Saturday cos OH for very bad tonsillitis and doctor said it's so bad because he hadn't rested and he needs to rest for a week he's been poorly for a month but she was convinced he'd be better by then so I could do it in spite of what doctor said said. I don't have a mum near who has nothing else on she can't drop everything and come over.