biscandmatt1
Wise Old Thumper
have they always been alone, or are they alone after losing their partner? do you feel bad about it?
i am really feeling incredibly guilty at the moment about bisc being alone. even though he's doing well, i just feel horrible. i said i would never keep a bun alone, and now i am. he's been alone since matt passed last august.
i guess i just wish matt could have stayed around longer. even just a year or two more.
bisc is eight soon and part of me wants to get him a friend, part of me is worried about it, about him, about having to go through this all again. i worry about vets bills and money in general. i worry because bisc has tummy issues and snuffles. i just worry about it all. i don't even know what he wants. i should do but i don't. sometimes i think he would like a new friend because he's quiet, but then he'll perk up and have a mad binky session.
just feeling like a **** owner at the minute and missing matt so much aswell. watched some vids and they looked so happy together. i feel like a bun shouldn't be alone.
o/h and i talked about giving another older bun a chance of a home, but then we couldn't insure them, and that would concern me, after regretting not getting bisc and matt insured. i don't know really.
i said after bisc and matt i wouldn't get anymore rabbits, maybe never, but at least not for a long time. but it seems so selfish on bisc.
sorry for the long post. just emotional about it all today.
i am really feeling incredibly guilty at the moment about bisc being alone. even though he's doing well, i just feel horrible. i said i would never keep a bun alone, and now i am. he's been alone since matt passed last august.
i guess i just wish matt could have stayed around longer. even just a year or two more.
bisc is eight soon and part of me wants to get him a friend, part of me is worried about it, about him, about having to go through this all again. i worry about vets bills and money in general. i worry because bisc has tummy issues and snuffles. i just worry about it all. i don't even know what he wants. i should do but i don't. sometimes i think he would like a new friend because he's quiet, but then he'll perk up and have a mad binky session.
just feeling like a **** owner at the minute and missing matt so much aswell. watched some vids and they looked so happy together. i feel like a bun shouldn't be alone.
o/h and i talked about giving another older bun a chance of a home, but then we couldn't insure them, and that would concern me, after regretting not getting bisc and matt insured. i don't know really.
i said after bisc and matt i wouldn't get anymore rabbits, maybe never, but at least not for a long time. but it seems so selfish on bisc.
sorry for the long post. just emotional about it all today.