biscandmatt1
Wise Old Thumper
it hurts so much.
Sorry you're hurting. I like to think we will see our pets again someday.
i can't wait to see him again. and ches. i know we will all be together again someday. i just miss him so much, i can't bear it at times.
Oh my dear ((((((((((((((((Huge hugs))))))))))))))))))
Each loss is different except in one thing...that it hurts so much.
And we will see all our loved animal companions again. I truly believe this. I think they also stay with us for a time until we can better handle their loss. This may be why you have seen their 'shadows' (for want of a better word) in their most familiar places.
They will always be close to you, both Matt and Ches. They both must have been so very special and they were obviously very dear to you.
I hope Bisc is doing well. I am thinking of you and wishing you peace and comfort. xxxx
thanks.
it just hits so hard sometimes doesn't it. i can't bear to think about what has happened because i'll just break down. just feel so empty inside.
Yes it does, but given enough time, the pain does ease and the emptiness does pass. I can't say you'll never stop missing him as I still miss my Dexy and just when I think I'm doing well, it hits me again. I didn't want I laugh or smile after Dexter passed in case it felt like I was forgetting him and so betraying his memory, but I realised Dexy wouldn't want me to never be happy again and neither would Matt. I'm sure he's up there now, watching over you even though you can't see him, but we can see them in our hearts and minds and one day we will be reunited again. Part of me can't wait to see him again, but I have responsibilities to my other bunnies and friends and family so I don't want to go just yet, but that doesn't mean I've forgotten or love him any less. I hope this makes sense. In the meantime, we are here for you xxx