I was just about to make a thread on here about how to help Julie clean the wax from her ear.
She too has arthritis in her hips and can't reach her ear with her back foot. Her ears must be really bothering her at the moment as her puts her ear down and her back foot goes crazy scratching the air like mad.
She figures out the scratching isn't touching her ear so she starts to rub her ear on the floor like crazy then falls over.
Her vet scooped out a ton of wax her last visit with a big Q tip. I am too afraid to do this also.
I have been rubbing her ear at the base upward. She loves this and leans hard into it. It seems to satisfy her need for scratching but so far I haven't seen any wax come up nor can I see any down inside.