helgalush
Wise Old Thumper
As we have been grieving lots for Kenco for the last three days we have started to analyse what happened and we are feeling consumed with guilt today that we could and should have done more for our little man sooner.
When we first noticed he had lost so much weight, he just didn't look himself, he had lost condition, looked visibly aged and his left eye looked strange. I couldn't put my finger on it. Kenco did lose weight when a dental was needed so our first instinct was to get him booked him for a dental with our rabbit vet and to arrange diagnostics at the same time, but we had to wait over a week to see her.
In hindsight we feel we should have taken him in to see any of the vets straight away and insisted on treatment for EC which we suspected, not waiting around for him to see the rabbity vet. During this time he could have started treatment and the outcome for him may have been totally different.
Even when he did have his teeth done though, the vet didnt suggest putting him on treatment, because she wanted to take bloods and he would still have been waiting now to have his bloods as she was going to do them on New Year's Eve. Also he saw a 2nd rabbity vet for a more thorough dental on Christmas Eve and this vet didnt pick up his loss of condition and the eye problem either, another opportunity missed to have started him on treatment.
We are beating ourselves up because we feel we have failed him at the end of his beautiful life, just when he needed us most. We both feel inconsolable abot it and are wracked with guilt. How do we cope with knowing we failed him? I can't bear that we let that litle man down, the most gentle happy-go-lucky soul you could ever meet. We've been so distracted by preparing for our baby and I feel horrible that I didnt push soon enough for him. And I am worried that how I am feeling is affecting the baby as I can't stop grieving for him.
When we first noticed he had lost so much weight, he just didn't look himself, he had lost condition, looked visibly aged and his left eye looked strange. I couldn't put my finger on it. Kenco did lose weight when a dental was needed so our first instinct was to get him booked him for a dental with our rabbit vet and to arrange diagnostics at the same time, but we had to wait over a week to see her.
In hindsight we feel we should have taken him in to see any of the vets straight away and insisted on treatment for EC which we suspected, not waiting around for him to see the rabbity vet. During this time he could have started treatment and the outcome for him may have been totally different.
Even when he did have his teeth done though, the vet didnt suggest putting him on treatment, because she wanted to take bloods and he would still have been waiting now to have his bloods as she was going to do them on New Year's Eve. Also he saw a 2nd rabbity vet for a more thorough dental on Christmas Eve and this vet didnt pick up his loss of condition and the eye problem either, another opportunity missed to have started him on treatment.
We are beating ourselves up because we feel we have failed him at the end of his beautiful life, just when he needed us most. We both feel inconsolable abot it and are wracked with guilt. How do we cope with knowing we failed him? I can't bear that we let that litle man down, the most gentle happy-go-lucky soul you could ever meet. We've been so distracted by preparing for our baby and I feel horrible that I didnt push soon enough for him. And I am worried that how I am feeling is affecting the baby as I can't stop grieving for him.