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Bracken's gone. Got admitted to vets last night, been up all night, phonecall at 2am asking permission to let her go. I feel numb, sick, faint, empty but no tears. Is this normal?
Yes, its totally normal to not cry. Everyone grieves in their own way. I for example didnt cry for 2 years after my Grandads death, then one day, completely random and out of the blue, i burst out in tears and cried for hours.
Bracken's gone. Got admitted to vets last night, been up all night, phonecall at 2am asking permission to let her go. I feel numb, sick, faint, empty but no tears. Is this normal?
I'm so sorry about Bracken. I've learnt that each grief is different and hits me in a different way. Just be kind with yourself and don't judge yourself for how you do or don't feel. Whatever you feel is ok.
I'm sorry I was the same as GrahamL though, didn't cry at all when my Grandad died, but at his funeral a week later I burst into tears and ended up making my cousin cry too, and he is a right tough nut.
I cried immediately when they said Hammy had to be pts but I blamed myself for not seeing it sooner cried for the next 2 days, but she wasn't in pain any more so I held onto that.