bonding advice needed please

i had lola spayed about 2 weeks ago the vet has given the all clear and said she couldnt believe how well she has coped with it, her fur has basically come back, you can only just see where she was cut because of all her fur

i am just wondering when i can introduce her to my male sootie, i know that people reccomend 6-8 weeks at least but i was wondering is it possible now, the only reason i ask is because they wont eat unless they are in the garden next to each other one in the run one in the garden, as soon as they cant "kiss" through the wire they get really upset and kind od mope around it just seems to me they want to be together always and i just feel really mean that they aren't

neither are agrressive towards each other they try to groom through the holes in the wire

The risk with doing it earlier is that it could damage the potential to bond. I certainly wouldn't try before 4 weeks because she will still be healing internally.

Can you not just keep them next to each other until 6-8 weeks after the spay?

Sky-O said:

The risk with doing it earlier is that it could damage the potential to bond. I certainly wouldn't try before 4 weeks because she will still be healing internally.

Can you not just keep them next to each other until 6-8 weeks after the spay?

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there hutches are facing each other as close as i can possible get them but because they cant touch they are not happy