shell1805
Mama Doe
a friend came over the other day and said something that has shocked me and also got me thinking.
she knows i have bella and jasper, she knows they wont bond, she knows i love them both to bits. so when she came out with this i was stunned:
'why do you still have them both?'
'huh, still got who?'
'the buns'
'ummmm... what??'
'well they wont get along, so why have you still got them both? surely it would be better just to have the one and that way that one can have all your time, instead of you having to split your time between them.'
'becasue i love them. i care for them and i could never do that. it works for us. neither suffers, they do tolerate each other as long as we keep an eye on them and how dare you say something like that!'
'personally i think you are being selfish. keeping them both for YOU, not whats best for THEM!'
:shock:
i cant get her comment out of my head
am i being selfish????
xxx
she knows i have bella and jasper, she knows they wont bond, she knows i love them both to bits. so when she came out with this i was stunned:
'why do you still have them both?'
'huh, still got who?'
'the buns'
'ummmm... what??'
'well they wont get along, so why have you still got them both? surely it would be better just to have the one and that way that one can have all your time, instead of you having to split your time between them.'
'becasue i love them. i care for them and i could never do that. it works for us. neither suffers, they do tolerate each other as long as we keep an eye on them and how dare you say something like that!'
'personally i think you are being selfish. keeping them both for YOU, not whats best for THEM!'
:shock:
i cant get her comment out of my head
am i being selfish????
xxx